I'm basically cheating on my gf of 3 years with my life

Three way?

>>18044440

ur best friend male or female?

dump your gf, she deserves better than you
after that kys

>>18044443
female

>>18044453
Haven't actually cheated but it's definitely not harmless flirting

what sort of answer are you expecting to get here exactly?

>>18044475
Doesn't matter, you have the hots for another female and you're willing to act on them. Regardless if it's flirtation or you're fucking her, you need to abandon the notion that your relationship is salvageable. Tell her what you did and let her be on her way.

>>18044475
Different person here but yeah, break up with your gf. She obviously isn't everything you want so save her the pain and end it now rather than let it drag on.

>>18044475
If you're doing something that you have to hide, it's cheating. Period.

OP here
thanks for the advice definitely what i needed to hear