Well /adv/ This is sort of a vent but, im really tired, tired of all my relationships failing, and to be quite honest its always either a total failure or they have serious issues which I cant help solve. Im emotionally exhausted, and to add this all up, my current girlfriend has severe depression and its even consuming me, What do you think I could do in this situation? im really helpless and tired of everything I cant even maintain a proper conversation with her cuzz im afraid ill lose her.. Im really lost...
>>18043374
its not just your relationships failing. its everyones. even people who have been together awhile are just gonna break up later. the chances of these couples making it to 40 is slim to none, let alone to old age.
as for your girlfriend, whats her pattern here? is something actually wrong or is she just in a depressed haze for months on end or what?
OP here,
She has severe depression issues and on sundays she always seems to get it more than usual for some reason,and its gotten to the point where she is dragging me down with her. I really want to stay with her and help her and i find that that is my greatest defect. And I do know we love each other but it kinda hurts to see her suffer.
>>18043565
again, is this a funk shes in or is it long term? has she been depressed since you started dating her? we need context.
Op here, yes she has been depressed since I started dating her.
>>18043582
>OP HERE
just respond to the posts, otherwise we dont know when / if you responded to us and dont check the tab.
>shes been depressed since i starteddating her
why does dating you make her depressed?