I have really bad oneitis, to the point where I'm thinking

>>18040843
>>I'm friendzoned
>Its over. Move on. Read the first two pastebins.
>Don't talk to her again. Hang out with new girls.
You know this is the only solution. Focus on the truth of it, make it part of your mind. Follow through. You'll never forget her totally but you'll move on and her significance will decrease.

>>18042597

Time is your friends. Try to see her less and keep busy. You'll be over it soon.

>>18042601

I am trying but it's incredibly hard, and I can't not see her because our social circle is the same. It's a small town too.

>>18042618
>>18042618

I was/still in a similar position. Liked best friend year ago and she friendzoned me. The best solution was to whore myself out. Because of it I'm more popular and I'm still friends with her.

>>18042635
How long did it take you to get over her?

I have been there before OP.
In my case i ended up dating my oneitis for one and a half year.

Let me be very honest with you, 100% from the bottom of my heart: She's not "special", she's not "unique", you are infatuated and thus idealizing her, accentuating her perceived qualities while ignoring her apparent flaws, unless she's an astronaut, there is nothing special about her.
And lastly but more importantly, your chances of getting with this girl, or any other girl for that matter, are inversely proportional to how much you obsess over her. This is a solid rule of the dating world for men.

These are some cold hard facts. What you're gonna do with this knowledge is up to you. Good luck.

>>18042646
Thanks man. She doesn't know how I feel, and I've read all that stuff about putting her on a pedestal and what not, but I don't know. I've never met a girl like her (and I truly mean that, I've met plenty of girls but she really does stand out) and I think about her flaws all her time to try and see if I can bring myself back to reality, but I just love her imperfections too. They all make up who she is and that's what I love about her.

I know this is probably just delusion, maybe down the road it'll change. I don't know, all I really want to do right now is take away this heart ache.

Thanks for the advice.

>>18042636
>>18042636

I didn't, I just had to learn to deal with it and realise whatever I do in life to make myself attractive, I can't attract everyone. You just gotta find something else that fills your life at this moment in time.

You're high right now. The comedown will be brutal but you'll be alright.

>>18042877

can depressed be called a high?

>>18043938
You wouldn't be gravitating towards the idea of being with her if you weren't addicted to it. Stop talking to her, stop stalking her, and you'll grow out of it after the withdrawals.