How do I ask a girl to choose between me or another guy?
There's a girl extremely interested in me and I'm in love with her too. This has been going on for a while. But, she has a boyfriend she's been with for 6 years. She wants me VERY badly and it's frustrating her because she doesn't want to cheat and I don't want to ask her to cheat either.
So what's the nicest way I can ask her to dump him and date me?
>>18041757
IDK dude. Be frank about it. Not in a "it's me or him" way, but just in a "you need to think about this and come to a decision" way. She can't put off chosing forever.
Also try and make sure her bf doesn't know you or he might wanna throw hands
>>18041757
>nicest
by not being rude. you need to be frank and state things as they are
> i love you, but we can't keep doing this. if you want me, than choose me. but we can't keep playing this game
>>18041810
pretty much this
>>18041810
>>18041775
Alright, I'll do this. She was over earlier today and we watched a movie and made out before she broke it off. We spent the rest of the movie cuddling as we usually do. She really wants to go for me. I really wish I could bring up how much better than her boyfriend I am but that would be a huge dick move.
>>18042076
Dude just have fun with it, what if she chooses you and your relationship immediately goes to shit. Maybe you guys like the danger, idk..
>>18042189
Our personalities match frighteningly well and we hang out all the time. If we got into a relationship it'd be the same as our friendship, just with more fucking.
>>18042076
Firstly, if she wanted to dump her boyfriend for you, she would have done it by now. And secondly, she's already cheating, so not only is she (and/or you) a dumbass, but she'll do the same to you. Peace.