>be horny 21 year old
>get laid
>feel regret and loss of self respect, push previous partner away
>decide to not have sex until I find dating material
>abstain for about 3-4 weeks
>suddenly horny as fuck again
>Cycle repeats itself
Could I have some advice on staying resolute/maintaining discipline on making healthy sexual choices? I don't want to keep having random casual encounters, but I get antsy as shit after going without for a sizable amount of time.
How are you even having this problem when daily masturbation is the norm now and everyone has instant access to an infinite amount of porn?
>>18041251
Because fapping gets old extremely quickly
>>18041272
Try shoving up things up your ass
I don't know if this is practical, but I think there are probably looking for monogamous (or nearly monogamous) casual relationships. This way you could pick someone you at least respect, and wouldn't feel so dirty.
>>18041287
but I'll warn you that people handle freedom like it's candy, when in reality it's dynamite. Unfortunately, the open ans unregulated dating market is a dangerous/dirty place.
>>18041235
As a 26 year old Virgin, I'd kill to have your problem.
How the fuck do you just "get laid" whenever you want to?
And yes, I absolutely mean casual hookups with people you don't necessarily like or respect.
>>18041272
Sounds like you need toys
>>18041770
I mean, just work at tinder until you make it
I honestly don't know how it happens, I just do whatever comes to mind
>>18041287
I would love something like this, unfortunately all the women that are apparently within my tier are generally unremarkable, and anyone I've actually wholeheartedly wanted is in some way unavailable. It also doesn't help that I graduate in 3 months, but hopefully when I go back home it'll get easier.
>>18041808
>>18041281
Totally thought about this and even trying guys but I'm not about it. As far as buying toys, I mean there are worse things to spend money on I guess.
>>18041845
*side note, I absolutely do not get laid whenever I want to
I just go out of a relationship almost a year ago and I've been intimate in some way with only five other girls. Doesn't help that I'm a minority in an almost all white school.