Nothing makes me hate life like 'nofriends'.
I have people on my friend list. I know one person I see regularly, but he never offers to hang out. Usually I'll have to ask him if he's going down to the bar, and he'll often respond, so that we both end up there. Sometimes he's said sorry he can't make it or whatever, but other than that its total radio silence from him.
The rest of the people 'in my life' are the same way. The only person that ever calls me out of the blue or texts me is someone I've known forever and its almost like its implied that we'll do something together when he comes back into town.
Everyone else its me that has to make the first step every single time, so it basically feels like people don't view me as important except for this one person.
Is it normal to never get contacted by supposed friends?
>>18040576
Is it normal to assume that other people should be initiating.
>>18040583
I think it'd be normal to assume 50/50 right?
>>18040576
Just ask these people why it's always you contacting them.
>>18040624
I agree. A good way to nuke relationships once and for all, heh.
Bump for interest. My situation is almost yours, the only person I contact with is my old friend from middle school. This shit is unbearable.