Hey guys I'm a shy beta cuck. How do I stop and become

>>18038557
Books

By taking action is the only way to change yourself.

The actions you should take are pretty obvious: Talk to more people until you are confortable with holding a conversation with a stranger. You can start by just sayin "good morning" to a doorman or whatever people you cross everyday.

After that, you should start talking to girl like that. You can start by just asking simple questions ("Do you happen to know what time is it?") or commenting on the weather "Gosh, is it just me or God turn the heater on?"

You'll notice many of those conversations actually start flowing naturally, but the point here, again, is just to feel confortable doing it. You don't have to ask nobody out, you don't have to get nobodys phone number. If you do, great, a plus for you.

After you get more confortable talking with girls you don't know, theeeen you should start pushing youself to get numbers and ask them out.

PS -> You should set achievable goes and pat yourself on the back everytime you achieve them. Example: "I'll speak with a strange person today" at first. Once you do it, go eat something you love - as a reward for what you did. The next day "I'll speak with 2 different people today and try to discover what is their favorite meal" and once you do that, you go play that game you love - again, as a reward.

Remember this process is slow, but it's very rewarding. Make yourself walk the road on baby steps until you are confortable with the big jumps.

I'll leave some books here that might help you out:
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
Awakening the Giant Within by Anthony Robbins.

Now a pickup program that might light up your path:
Blueprint Decoded (Real Social Dynamics Tyler Durden)
Actually, you can check out all of RSD on rsdnation website. MANY videos there to help you out on seduction.

>>18038596
OP here, thanks for the advice I'll definitely try to talk to more people. My problem is that I can easily talk to people I know, but I completely freeze up around strangers. Then again if I talk to more strangers, hopefully I'll get used to it, thanks.

I'll definitely check our those books thanks for the advice anon!! Btw I have more trouble talking to guys than girls since I'm a femanon. Then again I honestly get along better with guys once I have get to know them, all my female friends just do the have the same interest as me. Your advice is very much appreciated (:

>>18038557
Women in their younger ages want to date a guy that is either Interesting, muscular, or something is unique. You are here on 4chan so lets just assume you are none of those, you should probably just go workout and get /fit/ and women will be attracted to you

>>18038619
I got the impression you were a man, sorry femanon.

In that case, forget the RSD stuff cuz thats directed to guys. I'm sure there is a pickup comunity for girls, but that's so underground that I never found it, only talked to a girl who practiced it.

Just be careful not to endanger yourself doing what I said. And keep in mind you might be making the guys day by asking him to be your valentine! No matter his answer, it will be a major step forward for you (and you should reward yourself here too), and he will feel good for being invited for it.

>>18038619
Also, instead of "The way of the superior man", you should read "Dear Lover" by the same author.

The first book is meant for masculine women and men, whilst the second is for feminine women and men.

Most women have a feminine core, but it helps either way, both are very good books to understanding this polarities.

>>18038557
>>>18038557
>Books

This. And audio books. Go through the library. You tube videos too. Having the right tools changes everything.

>>18038596
Im so fucking scared.
Last weekend i went to the mall to have lunch and buy some new clothes. My only real friend nowdays made a goal for me to try to talk to atleast one person. This guy is a saint, actually helping me out a little.

But i could not make myself talk to a single person besides the cashiers, and it felt like a failure.

People are busy, it would be weird to just grab someone and start talking to them.
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I can't get out of the mindset that it would be weird.

When it comes to phone numbers i dared asking a female friend i had known since high school for her phone number one night a few years ago.

I invited her to dinner, and she came over, but she didn't understand that i was interested in her until later. Then of course she turned me down becaus i was already so deep in the friendzone.

But that is the only time i've dared to ask a girl for her number.

Im almost 30 years old.

>>18038647
But watch out what you read!
This stuff can become and addiction and keep you from taking action, never mind pulling you down

>Be me, 26 yo virgin
>Read some of these books, decide to take action, start approaching and flirting with girls instead of avoiding them
>Get a few numbers, a makeout, nearly get a girl back to my place on my first few tries
>Read the story of some guy in my situation who did nothing but lift a little, read the same stuff then pull two girls in the first two weeks of the semester, then proceed to bang 15 more in the same year
>Become so horribly depressed I find it hard to get out of bed, stop trying entirely, become self-conscious, desperate and wierd around girls because I can't stop thinking how it's completely pointless to even try since I'm obviously shit and will get nothing but scraps and maybe a gf or two in my lifetime anyways. When in truth, all this guy did was NOT try to skip the uncomfotable and awkward part by studying the actions of others and hoping that copying them will get you anywhere. Confidence gained through immediate success will whither eventually - confidence gained by persevering when things are bleak as fuck will last forever.

So read, then PUT IT AWAY. Store that stuff in the back of your mind, and then remind yourself that it's you, just you, taht nothing and nobody will, can and should hold your hand.
Your past doesn't matter, neither does your future, and the least of all what others do and achieve.

Is being shy your biggest problem right now?
Fix any underlying issues you might have with your appearance, career, parents, money etc.
Being shy is not a big deal but you obviously have more going on that that. See a psychiatrist, get a male role model/mentor, etc.

>>18040058

And yet here you are. Still doing fuck all.

>>18040101
Nah, I just came back from shopping.
Meditated beforehand to unclog my brain, then hit on some chick, set a date and got her number.

I just need to kick this reading addiction the same way I got rid of my weed, porn and vidya habits a few months back, and I'll be fine.
Also party tonight, here's to hoping I can keep out of my head and have some fun again.

>>18038557
You can start by not using terrible wolf pack analogies to gauge social success.