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This is going to basically be a dump of emotions.. Thanks to the cloak of anonymity. Let's begin, I'm 30 years old and getting married to an absolutely amazing woman soon. She has a heart of gold, unlike anyone I have ever met before. Here's where the issues begin... Our sex drives are polar opposite in a sense of I'm used to, well, think 50 shades of grey. She never wants to do anything, God forbid if I put her hand on my penis... It's like I just shot her dog or something. I don't know what to do anymore, the only time I am happy is when I am dreaming and unfortunately those dreams end as soon as I wake up. I don't want to hurt her, but I just want to be happy. She makes me happy, it's just she nags and doesn't like it when I "pick on her" the way I have in every relationship I have ever had.. I've never had anyone react the way that she does. I'm so broken right now, and I know I sound like a loser writing all of this. Every relationship I have been in previously - even just FWB's seem to have taught me wrong, or else she's just weird. What do I do? Where do I go?
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Cheat.
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>>18037601
That's it? I've thought about it, seriously considered it. I have friends still texting literally asking for sex even when I haven't been with them in 3+ years. Definitely not an easy thing to say no to when I'm not happy at home. Is there no other option?
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Don't fucking cheat. That's retarded. After you get married, try to convince her to pleasure each other. Tell her it will mean a lot to you and your sexual needs are not being met at all. Don't be a dick, but be assertive, this is a big problem. Just don't rape either.
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Well, if you get married and she still refuses, try asking your wife if you can have sex with other women then. If she says no she might even start doing it with you. If she says no and doesn't pleasure you herself then you are fucked, but secrecy and deception destroy relationships. Let her know how big of a problem it is. You aren't a loser for thinking this.
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Gotta say, if you're not being intimate with her why are you guys dating at all? May as well just be friends.
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>>18038240
>After you get married, try to convince her to pleasure each other
ROFL WHAT. Girls only LOSE their sex drive after marriage. Marriage doesn't fix problems. Ever.
>>18037594
Why are you getting married to someone you're unhappy with? That's just. So. Stupid.
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>>18038433
t. KHV
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not everyone is sexual , some people just don't enjoy sex so you really need to think this thru cause the odds are she will never be a sexual person . You might want to reconsider marrying her if sex is a big issue for you .
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