>be pathetic permavirgin
>join various dating sites because too pussy to try dating in real life
>get little to no response
>realize that I am probably not mentally prepared to really start a relationship but still want to get attention for woman online via matches/profile views etc
How do I either stop being an insecure piece of shit that requires validation from strangers online in order to feel slightly better about myself and possibly quite online dating for good.
Or maybe better still; how do I stop being a pussy and pursue dating in a more proactive manner
>>18036705
get a job.
>>18036709
Already have a job
>>18036760
You are not as pathetic then.
Hit the gym, improve yourself and lower your standards and try again.
>>18036763
>Lower standards
Any lower and I'll be fucking mud
>>18036760
what if I'm a 7-8 but I don't have a job. i'm looking for one currently. is there hope for me senpai?
i'm not even trying to just bang these girls i'm just lonely af
>>18036705
Sounds like you got some issues that even getting a girl won't help, thought of therapy?
>>18037391
If you find a girl she'll bitch nonstop about you
not having a job, and it will depress you further.
You aren't pathetic for wanting attention from women. If everyone who wanted attention from the opposite gender was an insecure piece of shit then everyone would be an insecure piece of shit (which is true but i digress).
Don't feel ashamed for wanting women, it's completely normal and healthy. AND women like normal and healthy guys so there you go.
>>18037395
Been in and out of therapy for years. never really done anything for me
>>18037396
true.
i just feel like its easier to be motivated to get one if i have someone, evne tho it makes more sense to get one first. kek