How do I start picking up on signals from girls when it is actually

playing with hair, smiling, laughing at things you say that aren't that funny, open body, feet pointed towards you, eye contact, bashful, "good energy", you getting a boner

>>18036656
ok well that shit is obvious but like in the moment i just think "hur she is being friendly don't be a desperate r9k autist"

then i always realize it later

i think its crippling low self esteem

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Tbh, it's best to try to not focus on these signs. You'll become too focused on them and become anxious. You'll ask "Does she like me???" after every glance, laugh, etc. You'll constantly second guess yourself. Just advance with obvious signs and pull away when she seems uncomfortable. Don't overthink it

Just be confident. assume she already likes you and roll with it

>>18036694
i am the kind of retard that read this

http://www.thedatereport.com/dating/attraction/10-hilarious-examples-of-guys-not-realizing-theyre-being-hit-on/

and resonated with basically every single one

what the fuck is my problem. i could imagine myself doing all of those

>>18036696
Yeah I'd have done most of those.
The best was the soda pop one because I was in that kind of situation once.

I made a move and got slapped, she meant an attractive man should ask her out like that.

>>18036717
the thing is even when i am now purposely trying not to be a retard i would do all of those right this instant given the opportunity. i would just think they are testing me to see if i am creepy or something, or trying to humiliate me/try to make me look weird and desperate

>>18036737
Yeah true I've had people come up and hit on me then laugh in my face when I thought they might be interested.


I don't like people very much.