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Is it possible to be with the same person for a long time without them ever getting tempted to cheat? I've had a history of bad relationships and I'm finally in one with a really loving and promising guy, he practically worships me and sees a lot more in me than I do and even then I'm terrified he'll do the same.
I know it's me being paranoid but it really does seem like eventually all guys get led to cheat.
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>>18035972
It's inevitable
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Depends on whether you don't want him to watch porn or not.
Seriously though, I think I've asked my gf to kill me if I ever do that to her; just gotta find someone who really loves you. Has he been cheated on before? Cause that usually tends to stop someone from thinking about doing that.
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>>18035972
Look OP it's human nature to be attracted to other people we aren't meant to be with only one person but if you guys love each other and what not yeah you guys might stay together for a long time or the rest of your lives but you gotta remember it's human nature to be attracted to other people it's the persons will power to not cheat
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In my experience it's a virtually impossible thing for somone other than the two in the relationship to anticipate. That being said, I've certainly met plenty of guys who simply don't have a cheating bone in their body, having met the the girl they want to settle down with and every once and a while even at an extremely young age. It certainly sounds like you've found a relatively faithful guy. My parting advice is - as long as there's an atmosphere of ease and mutual faith you're on a very good track.
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>>18035972
Being a good or bad person is not a static experience. Life is full of opportunities to make selfish, bad decisions and the measure of a person is how adept they are at using those opportunities to do the right thing.
You can't control people. You can't control chance or opportunity or even intent. All you can do is learn to trust people and hope for the best.
Some guys cheat. Some guys don't. Whether or not he might has absolutely no bearing on what you have to do. You know you can't spend your life paranoid that something terrible is around the corner. You can't spend your life not trusting people.
Either you accept the possibility that all good things in life come with the chance of getting hurt or spend your life never making an attempt to be happy. Thats all you can do.
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>>18036008
Beautifully said.
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