Hey /adv/. My girlfriend and I had a shaky last month and nearly

I did go through that stage, and I think many people go through such a breaking point. When you're able to mature and get past it, and actually fucking ADMIT and FORGIVE, you'll open up the gates to an amazing relationship.

i'm currently in a similar situation, bad summer of miscommunication and shit like that, i'm equally as frustrated and bummed out as you are.

i don't know the answer. i'm trying to better myself and be more patient with her. the problem is she is very abrasive and stubborn, and i'm somewhat irrational, we're both going through shit in our lives, but no matter how bad the argument is we always end up forgiving eachother.

i don't know man, sorry if i don't have the answer but, just know you're not alone in this battle

>>18035246
You go through patches like that in a LTR, I've been through several in the 13 years I've been with my husband. The key is communication, you have got to be able to talk to each other about your grievances.

>>18035246
It happens. If you can get through it, your relationship will be incredibly strong. If you can't, then it's obviously time to end the relationship. Most (maybe all) long term relationships will inevitably go through a rough patch. As long as neither of you do something unforgivable like cheating or anything else that does permanent damage to relationships, you should be able to work through it if you both really want to.

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Thanks guys. We've been together for over a year now and we had a kind of similar bad period a couple months in, so I've felt like we're in it for the long haul. But I don't want to feel like all our progress needs to be forwarded by these awful arguments (she hit a bedframe during one of them and it scared both of us, and I've closed up a lot when she's confronting me about us), or that it's looming whenever things go wrong... Don't think I can take that

>>18035286
Nah, it's good to know. Thanks anon.

Gonna bump this for a little bit just in case. I like hearing perspectives on stuff.

One more bump. Gnight, /adv/.

Ive experienced something similar. Helps to look wat what may be causing series of arguments. For me, it was stress. Im much less tolerant when stressed out by unrelated stuff.

or is there underlying mental health issues. Always something to consider.

Bump. Also good luck OP.

>>18036576
Thanks yo.

Just glad other people are in the struggle. Helps it feel worth it.