Hi /Adv/ I am not sure what to do anymore. The other night my

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>>18033846
>having an open relationship

It was doomed from the start.

What you've shared about your man raises a lot of red flags imo. If he can't respect you and accept you for who you are right now, then you both should part ways. It's tough and painful. I know this from experience and I too have a mental illness/disorder.

>>18033858
When one has a Sex drive the other can't handle, they have to go elsewhere.

>be introverted woman with mental illness
>marry extroverted man and makes it an open relationship
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You really messed up this one, good luck to you

>>18033888
Yea I did, Didn't I.

>I know a majority of it is my fault

This is a bad mentality to have, just because mental illness sometimes can't be helped. Sometimes it isn't anyone's fault, and it's generally not helpful to concentrate on whose fault it is, rather than trying to solve a problem.

On the actual problem - maybe you told him about it a few years prior to marriage but it's been a while since then? It's understandable that after some time, he's unable to withstand it any longer. Have you tried asking / has he elaborated on what parts he's finding it hard to deal with? perhaps pinpointed focus on those aspects might make it easier.

>The only time I can get his attention is if I dress up to his standards I am uncomfortable with and then it's back to porn or gaming. He is more interested in the girls he can get sex out of than our own relationship (It's open) However this last argument Occured after I mentioned I was getting out of a hobby because I was too old and people my age were drinking and having Parties. He brought up we never do anything together because I am introverted and Don't want to go do anything. When asked what I turned down, he mentioned going to Parties (Which He knew in the first place I don't go to because I do not like being around drunks) And everything else he brought up, Were planned when I was at work or was something I hadnt even heard of until he told me that moment. In other words I turned down stuff I was busy earning money for bills or something i didn't even know it exist.

Red flags - he's just bored of the relationship. It might be in part due to the mental illness but I hardly feel like the last part is your fault. He's being an unreasonable little bitch. Dare I say, he sounds like a woman - who complains about not getting taken out enough or that their husband isn't spending time with them while they're busy making money and dealing with other important things in life (in your case, mental illness) and then proceeding to blame them for it.