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I need some help/just someone to talk to. I'm in love with a girl. We met each other in a nontraditional way, she is an escort. We've now known each other for three years. For the past two months we have been together every single day, except most weekends. Two weekends ago we went on a nice date, did food and a comedy show. She told me she loves me, and I told her that I love her, I spent the night at her place. We then spend the next week together, every single day. She got drunk on Friday and texted me some things that she felt like she needed to say. A few of these things included "we are not together, stop acting like it, I like being independent for a big reason." I went to her house the following day and admitted to her that I do indeed have real feelings for her. I told her that she is the first and only person in the world that I can talk to about anything to, which is the truth. I then tell her all of the superlatives that I enjoy about her, and that I only wish for her to be happy in life. She starts to cry, and then tells me that she feels the same way. She loves how I make her laugh, how I always compliment her, and that she also feels like she can talk to me about anything and I am not judgmental at all. After saying this she goes on about how she has never really had a good bf, they always want to control her. I'm not like that at all. She talks about how guilty she feels if she is in a relationship with her source of income. We then both go our separate ways for the weekend, both of us getting fucked up beyond belief. I cannot stop thinking of her. End of part one.
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She texts me on Sunday, asking if we can talk. We do she tells me how much she has felt like shit because of the way she treated me, how much she really appreciates me, how she needs to work on her self esteem and not be so critical of herself on her mistakes. I've always thought I knew what love is, until I met her and felt what love is. Do you think I can work through this and help her realize herself worth, that she is worthy of a supportive man in her life? Do you think she has feelings for me considering she is the one that reached out an apologized? Am I a dumbass? All I want is for her to be happy.
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You can't fix her.
Red flags exist for a reason.
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>>18029130
I've helped people in the past, so I don't personally think that is necessarily true.
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It sounds to me like she needs support, and you seem like a genuine guy. You may be the one thing between her and a life of misery, and if you let this one go you will regret it for the rest of your life.
The worst thing that can happen is you fail, the best thing? Maybe a happy loving family some day.
Go for it. Pull this woman out of the hole she's in and show her she's worth something to you at the very least. This is not a matter for debate, just do it. For her sake and your own.
The texts you received were a defense mechanism. She's used and broken down by who knows how many others and its convinced her she's worthless and only good for one thing.
You're different though, aren't you? Prove it to her.
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>>18029124
>she is an escort
lol
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>>18029167
>You may be the one thing between her and a life of misery
The more I get to know her, the more I feel like this is the case.
>if you let this one go you will regret it for the rest of your life
That is my deepest fear.
>Maybe a happy loving family some day.
This is all I want out of life. I could care less about money and material gains
>The texts you received were a defense mechanism. She's used and broken down by who knows how many others and its convinced her she's worthless and only good for one thing.
She's told me quite a bit about her past, and you have hit the nail on the head. She says she does not want to have a serious relationship with anyone because she wants to be independent. I told her that is exactly what I want for her, to be strong and independent. I told her I don't want to control her. The silence after I said that from her was almost awkward.
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So youre happy with a girl thats getting railed by countless guys every week?
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>>18029245
Well she's not going to do it after 2 more years. I have a count on how many she actually sees, it not countless that's for sure.
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>>18029253
So youre happy with a girl thats getting railed by guys who aren't you every week?
I thought the cuck meme was just that- a meme
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