Whith who would you rather be in a relationship with?
>A: 5/10 looks, 90% compatibility
or
>B: 9/10 looks, 50% compatibilty
I've found myself in the current situation and I don't know what to do. I'd like to see other perspectives on the situation.
Person A and I really hit it off nonstop perfectly all the time. Perfect personality, interests, ethics, etc. I'm falling for said person, but I still can't shake the feeling that I'd be settling for less.
I'm incredibly physically attracted to person B and we get along just fine. We've hung out a couple times, but I'm still not even sure if said person is even into me really.
Thoughts/advice?
Thanks, /adv/.
I'd pick A anyday, but that's because I don't want flings. Looking for meaningful, long lasting relationships.
What about you OP? What are you looking for?
>>18028248
How about
>C attractive to me/10 looks, attractive to me compatibility.
If you're not attracted, you're not attracted. Thems the breaks. it ain't a piecemeal thing, it's a full package.
But if you're young and inexperienced to not know that, you may as well go learn by gaining first hand experience, fuck ups, and successes.
>>18028248
A out of those choices.
Can i take 7/10 and 70% compatibility? That's my dream right there. I would be uncomfortable dating someone who looked like a model and i want someone who is compatible but not a carbon copy of me. I always found 70%ers the most intriguing when i was on OkCupid.
>>18028248
For a serious relationship? A, any day.
If you're not attracted to her, tho, move on.
The one who is willing to put more effort in
A 5/10 can become a 7-8/10 with effort
>>18028248
>5/10 looks, 90% compatibility
Does not compute.
A, but since you're retarded enough to even have to ask this question leave A alone and free to find someone who deserves her, chase B, get rejected, cry, and then kill yourself
I don't know what your interests are, so I don't know how rare compatibility is for you. Or how angsty/misanthropic you may or may not be
From my experience, I'd date a disembodied human consciousness haunting a moose turd if it meant 90%+ compatibility. Maximum angst.