>be me >have a older, but cute blonde fiancee >years

I used to be in a relationship like that. I just couldnt be bothered for sex. I had sex like once every 2 months or so. My boyfriend begged me all the time for it. It was just so boring to me. He never got me off either. It was all him.

We broke up and i got with another guy. THEN i found out my ex was not well gifted in regards to penis size. He was between 3 to 4 inches and it didnt feel good for me.
My current boyfriend is 7 inches and wow its like my whole view on sex changed. My bf bought me a bullet sex toy to help me orgasm.
Now we have sex 3 to 4 times a week.

My advice to you is:
Your fiance might not be having fun during sex. Buy toys. Knock her socks off. Dont make it all about you. Make sure she orgasms too. Ask her what she likes.

>>18028156
I dont think I have a big one, but around 5.5 inches. Sometimes pretty excited gets bigger and even "hurts" her.

I dont beg her, but its hard to look for a future like this... She thinks she is not looking good and etc, but I also think I am not exciting her.

Thanks anon, I will try to buy some vibrator and stuff. I did asked and etc on the past, but she is too puritan now.

>>18028141
Dont marry if your libido doesn't match. It will just lead to resentment down the line.

>>18028392
Yea, I think the same.. but I care too much about people.

She does not have good paying job and her father just died. I already proposed before all this...

I will try to fix this, otherwise I cant continue...

I had a great sex drive until I gained weight.

How does she feel about herself?

>>18028394
She does not feel good about herself, still pretty in the face, but body defo went down. Also due to the age, but mostly about drinking and eating too much. She is not fat, just above weight.

She is too connected to me, I tried to make her do some Zumba shit and even proposed to pay classes, but she wants me to go with her or something. Even bought running watches that are still on the box.

Same for me, I could be better also. But hard to motivate if the woman is giving a shit...

>>18028397
If she wants you to go with her then do it. Maybe doing things together will make her desire you more.

>>18028401
Yes, I will try.

The only problem is that she is a bit like a kid, wants to do/buy something. Then buy and leave aside or dont do what she wanted to do.

I am not perfect, but she is sure messed up. This is why I found strange me getting a 9/10 girl like this free and interested on me in the beginning while I am 7/10 at best.

>>18028408
She's your wife man, cherish the fact that you have a woman who wants to do nice activities like that with you. The fact that she bought running watches and they are laying in the box fills me with a pang of sadness.

>>18028397
Some people are like that, its not a negative quality and shows she is interested in trying new things.

Now don't get me wrong here, I don't know the particulars, but I feel like you don't cherish your wife for who she is.
Get to know her better, spend nice days doing the things you both love, then the sex will come and be attentative to her desires when it does.

I wish you all the best

>>18028428
Thanks anon!

We are not married yet and the watches I bought, not her.

Like the other anon said, I might have been thinking too much about me and I should also motivate her.

>>18028432
Ah ok. And sorry I didnt read carefully, thought it was your wife

Best of luck

>>18028459
np anon!

thanks again, hard to find nice people here! :)

I want to stop but I can't
What I want to do is to stop being attracted by beauty of body.
I believe that women/human beings should be valued more for the beauty of their minds rather than for the beauty of their bodies
This is what I REALLY want but my body tends to act in conflict of my beliefs and I continue to watch porn and feel a desperate need to fap and afterwards I hate myself because I betrayed my ideals.
What can I do?

>>18028527
>I want to stop but I can't
>What I want to do is to stop being attracted by beauty of body.
>I believe that women/human beings should be valued more for the beauty of their minds rather than for the beauty of their bodies
>This is what I REALLY want but my body tends to act in conflict of my beliefs and I continue to watch porn and feel a desperate need to fap and afterwards I hate myself because I betrayed my ideals.
>What can I do?

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>>18028141
>>18028156
dont marry whores

>>18028864
mine is whore? she barely does sex with me... cheating I dont think she is because she only does work to home and she does not go out at all

she has to be really good in hiding and fitting in a small schedule to be cheating me

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>>18028873
she probably was, like most young women this in this generation, which is why she is unsatisfied

see>>18028392


>>18028397
>>18028408

she is using you, sounds like a succubus

>>18028428
>cherish the fact that you have a woman who wants to do nice activities like that with you

this morons, give me a fucking break god

>>18028896
So, what does it mean? She needs more dick? This is why she does not do too many sex?

Or she does not more sex because she did a lot?

It is a bit convoluted what you are saying...

>>18028903

she probably had way better so she is bored to have sex with you. She probably wants it badly, just not from you.

test her, propose a cuckold deal, if she accepts quickly and very happily, means that she's been wanting to fuck other people, but she also doesnt want to the leave the dependent relationship she has with you.

Tell her that if she wants to fuck other guys for fun, thats ok with you,,,,if she doenst outrage, thats a bad sign,, and if she accepts, leave before is to late.

>>18028919
I made this question on the other day if she wants a open relationship or being with other guys. She said no and thats it.., No big stress from her part. Would need more pressure to get an answer or for her to be angry.

Funny enough she was much less prude on the beginning, like 4 years ago. If I had pressed at this time maybe she would have accepted. But maybe its because we were more sexually active?

We had a lot of great sex and I never failed to make her have an orgasm. Anyway, I must admit I am not looking the best now, but she also (still pretty face though).

Like I said also in other topic, I will try my best to improve the situation (do stuff with her, buy some sex toys, try to lose weight) and to make her be honest with me. If does not work I will quit before marrying, then I can say at least I tried.