I'm scared I'm too old to find a new boyfriend. I just

Have you talked to your bf about any of this .. ?

You're 25, you have plenty of time.

But you need to talk to him and make a decision.

>>18026041


Talk about what?

I mean I talk about him how I feel
About things. He's even said he wanted to break up a couple times in the past few months bc he feels bad about going on trip without me and stuff, says I'm difficult and irresponsible and other shit. It's clear he doesn't wanna be with me anymore for whatever reasons. I wanna be with him, but he doesn't feel the same and I'm pretty sure he's gonna breaks up with me for good very soon.

>>18026032
I'll be your boyfriend bb.

If he told you he wants to break up, then go ahead and end it. Nothing worse than dating a little kid, if you're ready to grow then take the first step. Being on your own will be a lot better than being with someone who acts like they don't care about you. In all honesty, the more time you spend on your own the more time you have to do whatever you want to do, grow, experience new things, and along the way you'll find someone who will appreciate you for you and have the mental capacity of an adult.

>>18026062


I don't wanna break up with him tho. I really love him. We will only break up if he does! I know
It sounds bad. In the meantime I'm still working on myself and doing what I want.

>>18026062


But yeah.. Like I have to act like a child basically for him to like me.. And I feel like it's keeping me back from being a fucking old that I'm going to need to do who wants to be a 40 year old child still that's awful.

You're never gonna change and neither is he

You are both doomed

What's so special about this guy anyway? Is he tall dark and handsome? Does he have a huge dick?

I mean it's gotta be something if you are choosing to stay with a 25 year old man child who still lives with his mom. That is just pathetic, and so are you for enabling that shit.

>>18026087


Idk. He was my first serious relationship, I lost my virginity to him. Every other thing I had with other guys were flings, and I didn't care about them and wouldn't even have sex w them.
He's not that attractive and he's only like 5'10 but idk I'm just attached, I don't have close friends really and he's my first relationship I got close to someone in a longtime..

>>18026087
I guess I need to work on building friendships with people and stuff. I miss my old friends but it's been so many years since we been in touch and they're all successful and adults and I'm still half child and not really accomplished. I guesss my bc contributes to that. I don't think I will really grow with him..

Gotta pull the plug OP because it's a matter of time before he finds a rebound and once he does then it's gonna make the end that much more painfil. He may even emotionally cheat.

I speak from experience with my ex as she was so unhappy and wanted her indipendence. Then this guy comes along and they talk then she cheated and left me for him

You are gonna have one relationship after the next. Thing is they make you stronger and you can only learn from the expereinces you have . If you don't go through these then you will learn nothing and never be happy.

Enjoy the time you did have and move on. Learn from it so that when you find the one then that will be all the better for how much stronger you are then than now.

>>18026102
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Yeha maybe. He could be looking for someone right now. His friends are probably trying to make him leave me. They'll probs try to get him
To cheat on me on their vacations. Who knows

>>18026032

Eh, I love with my mom and I'm 30. Circumstances haven't been kind with Sandy and being in NY. That said, if she's ready to have a life that conflicts with his, she needs to sit down and have a talk with him and come back with an answer.

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>tfw I lived with my parents til 27 and outright bought a home for myself, and no debt in school

feels good

Anyways, he is clearly treating you badly, but despite you talking about how immature he is, you're clearly quite immature yourself. Practical skills, and living on your own don't make you make you a mature person.

If you don't want to end things, then at least have a conversation with him about his behavior, and go from there. Literally all there is to it.

>>18026111


I had a convo about it and be doesn't wanna change and thinks I'm the problem he would rather break up with me then make any changes it seems, he gets mad when I confront him.

And good for u but did u even live ur life those years are you single now you just have a house for u to live in? Sounds lonely

>>18026121
Okay, then the relationship is over.

And everyone defines living their lives in different ways. I had a lot of fun during those years, if that is what you're asking. Even was in a long term relationship, and now we live together in my 2800 sq ft house and are planning to get married.

I certainly wouldn't want to live your life, despite you thinking you're all grown up or having a good time simply because you're on your own, and I would highly doubt you could hack it in mine either.

Don't be narrow.

>>18026138


I know
It's over. That's the point of this thread.. Which you basically just used to make urself
Feel
Good and make me feel bad. I'm out.

>>18026032

I'm a 27 year old guy and most of my female friends have ended their teen relationships some time in the last 5 years. Some have new boyfriends but a lot of them are just catching up on some fun times. You are in no rush, stop listening to your screaming ovaries.

>>18026121
>And good for u but did u even live ur life those years are you single now you just have a house for u to live in? Sounds lonely

This right here is the biggest indicator that you have the maturity of a 17-18 year old. You may be on your own, but I'm quite certain you're about on par with your boyfriend in these regards. Maybe that is why you guys are still together?

Focus on yourself and grow, also dump your baby boyfriend.

>>18026146
Haha, you're actually a literal child. This is amusing.

>>18026148
Okay thanks. Yah I do know some ppl my age from high school who are single. It's just scary! I don't wanna be a single 29 year old! Only 4 years away ya know.

>>18026061
same