Hey /adv/, I decided to take this semester off of school due

>>18023280
>How do I start working on my goals?
You don't, not now. Your list of things is huge, pick one or two things and focus on accomplishing them instead.

I found that anxiety and social stress was a load on my shoulders, lifting it off in therapy made me happy. I advice everyone to do the same. Takes some time maybe.

>>18023280
>>18023280

We are incredibly similar, anon. I wish there was some sort of community where we could keep each other accountable and keep up with our foals, but the biggest piece of advice I can give you is to focus on your habits and changing them.

Try recording everything you do in a day. Write your emotions as you do them. What was the cue? Time? Location? Feeling? The identify the routine, and the reward, etc. etc.

Basically, many of your actions are defined by your habits, if you can slowly rewire them, and make daily, weekly AND long-term goals for each of them, you'll find yourself blazing through it all.

Also PLEASE PLEASE seek therapy. I was in your shoes and I ended up wasting a lot of time because I had unresolved issues that I was too ignorant to realize I needed to get to until recently.

>>18023492
This. You're unfocused, your plans are grandiose, and your steps to even start your goals will be hindered by this. The things you've listed at a brief glance are several years worth of work and don't necessarily fit together well. Pick a couple ideas or activities that complement each other, start, and move forward over the next couple years until you find that you have achieved them, or decide they're not for you.

>get fit
>learn how to swim/hike

>learn to fish
>use fish you caught while learning to cook

>Learn French
>read more novellas, some in French

Pick a set or make another, have a good year working on them.