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Wrote with a girl on tinder, she seems really nice, we share some interests, music in particular.
Got her snapchat too.
She is not only 148km away in another city, but she seems to have frightingly too much going on in her life.
Her parrents and her are all musicians, she plays cello, guitar, takes piano lessons.
She works out, even had a boxing-work out?
Had a belgian friend over last week, going to have a danish exchange student over soon too.
She seems to have her future all planned out.
She told me last night that so far she has gotten the highest grades possible in all subjects in school.
She reads every night.
She also seems to have a great relationship with her family, nothing rare really.
Maybe its just the contrast that im worried about, Im pretty lazy in most regards. Also I have social anxiety if thats the correct buzzword for being bad with people Im not very close with.
Also should I get on a train to meet her or something? Meeting has been hinted at but it seems a monumental task. Going to another town two hours away and actually perform, interest her, make her laugh?
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>>18014018
She might be layering it all on as a defense. I'd still try, worst she says she's too busy.
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Don't go - don't learn anything
Go - Fuck it up, maybe learn something important
Maybe it won't work out, maybe she will be just a friend, maybe she will introduce you to someone who IS perfect for you
It's one day out of your life anon, don't worry about it, you will have a million more after it, better to face that million with lessons learned and risks taken
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Also you are visiting her city, be entertaining but remember she is hosting you!
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>>18014018
Not worth it.
Get a girl closer to you.
Ldrs suck.
Ldrs never work.
Ldrs leave you more miserable than before you started them.
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>>18014018
>takes piano lessons
What a cuck. Why throw your money away to "learn" how to play the piano, when all you need to do is press keys, and whatever sounds good is good. This should be a huge redflag for you OP. She clearly is financially unsavy
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148km?
isn't that like a 2 hour drive?
that just sound impractical.
evaluate yourself, why do you want a woman? what are you lacking in your life that makes you want to seek out this woman hours away?
If you were a self content, and better man, I don't think you'd be wearing the shoes you're in right now.
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