When is it the right time to say 'I love you' in a

>>18012437

You are dripping with insecurity here. What does it matter if she says "I love you"? Is she or is she not dating you? Isn't that a good enough sign of her interest?

>>18012437
It depends on the people and the relationship. There is no rule.

I fell in love with my boyfriend after the first time we talked. I knew he was the one. But it took me a year to say it.

>>18012440
/adv.. so wise.. so much truth..
yes I am insecure. it is trust issues. i had a bad experience in a past relationship where i gave a lot and i guess i'm a bit paranoid. Thanks for gd advice!

>>18012452
a year.. bloomin heck! did you sense he needed to hear it at all at any time or did it just come naturally?

>>18012437

we tell puppies and junk food and other peoples kids we love them within 5 minutes of meeting them.

the problem isn't that people say i love you too soon, but rather that the other person takes it too seriously.

>>18012460
this is sort of what i was thinking.. i think i give 'love' quite freely compared to most.

i have told my best buds 'love ya man' in the past . It surprises me that most other people do not do this!

>>18012470

i have a habit of saying it the first night im with some one, just when you get into that intense cuddling and fun. ive only had one person get upset about it, everyone else, is like 'i know what you mean, i love you to' or at worse just laughs it off before i fuck their brains out.

though i usually sprinkle it in with a 'god i love you' to make it more casual.

but yeah i say i love you to all my friends or even just my roommate when he said i could use his jam.

>>18012458
We're not very romantic with words, we still rarely say we love each other.
I was cuddling next to him and I just told him "You know, I really fucking love you". He laughed and told me he loved me too.
He didn't say it ever again if not after a few months. And he said so while talking to his father, not even to me.

>>18012484
Haha you sound like Austin powers

>>18012602
i think (hope) this is how it works out with my gf :) nice to hear other people's stories!