Would it be weird to give a box of chocolates to this girl on Valentine's Day to show her my thanks for everything? She's been unusually nice to me all the time, like getting food to me when I got a concussion, giving me food for an Army expedition I was going on, always asking if I was feeling better and even listened to a few troubles I had etc. She's basically the only one I actually see as a goof friend on campus besides my guy friends.
I'm not REALLY interested in her romantically, I just want to show my thanks since she's mostly helped me and I haven't really done much in return, plus my mom gave the box to me and I don't really want the chocolate in the first place.
>>18010918
good* not goof lol
Chocolate is painfully stereotypical romance.
Get her a gift card or something.
If you're not interested in her romantically, why not give them to her on literally any other day?
>>18010922
I'm only suggesting this because I already have the chocolate
>>18010924
Hm, fair point, but in reality I wouldn't mind dating her too. She seems interested, I think, but then again I've misinterpreted friendship and romance many times
>>18010924
This. Chocolates and gifts on valentines day are all romantic gestures
>>18010929
Are you, or are you not interested in dating her? If you are, then ask her out like a normal person, if you're not, then give her the chocolates on another day. This isn't difficult.
>>18010933
Fuck... I've been rejected like three times in the past 3 months though and I'd just get more depressed if I got the "just friends" speech again
>>18010937
So you'd rather just avoid asking out another woman again? Or you'd rather make it more awkward by giving her chocolates on Valentine's Day?
>>18010960
Man, you;re right. I guess I'll just give em' to her tomorrow or something and say my thanks. Being friends is more important