How do I move on from a girl that I know my love for her isn't

>>18010015

Meet more girls. Find some that like you. Realize there's no point in going after someone that doesn't like you back. Move on with your life.

>>18010041
I don't talk to women much cause I'm what people call beta. Would cutting contact with her help?

>>18010088
>Would cutting contact with her help?

It depends. Are you gonna focus on something else or are you gonna keep obsessing over her?

I'm currently in same situation, in my opinion first step would be to cut all contact with that person and man that can be hard especially if you love her. And understand that as her loss. You will lose someone who didn't love you and she will lose someone who loved her. Its hard but hold on bro.

>>18010123
That's what I hoped to happen as a result that I can't see her any more over social media she is that much more out of my mind

>>18010160

Your answer is hard to read. I assume you expect that by not seeing her you'll focus on something else. I can tell you right now that if you don't FIND something to do, you'll be back to thinking about her. So distracting yourself means taking actual steps and doing something, not just sitting in your room.

>>18010173
Yeah I was expecting if I don't see her at all she won't be on my mind. I do have other hobbies I can do I'm just not sure what will happen as I have never actually felt so much for a person so much where as they are always on my mind

>>18010149
Have you come across this situation before? Or am I your guinea pig

>>18010387
Well thats how i'm dealing with same situation and i believe its the only way. If you are sure she has no feeling for you, only thing you can achieve by hoping something will change is suffer.

>>18010404
I guess I'll tell her my feelings but burning the bridges is fine if she doesn't really care much for me?

>>18010589
You will probably be a joke to her friends if you just tell her you have feelings for her and you never want to talk to her again. Just walk away as quietly as you can, hombre.

>>18010778
I was planning to do this over a text cause of the reason you just stated and she would most likely reject cause of social pressure and embarrassment

>>18010806
If you feel like it will give you some closure, go for it. But ultimately the only way to close this door is for you yourself to finally decide that it's closed. My advice to you would be to shut that shit, turn around and keep your head up.

Good luck whatever you do man. Look after yourself.