Is there a possible way to incorporate a new mindset into your

>>18008118
>I know people aren't going to take me seriously

When you try to change yourself that's the reaction you'll get. You just have to plow through it

>>18008118
I also wonder this.

>>18008123
OP here. You weren't supposed to tell me the truth :,( jk you're right

>>18008118

Change in a slow and steady way, instead of trying to walk in day #1 like a brand new person. Focus on some of the smaller things you want to work on and build up to a larger thing.

...is what I would say to someone that had something useful that they wanted to do instead of buying into that bullshit.

>>18008140
You kinda have to go your own way when you an ugly nigga. Also i think pickup is stupid but i still would like to adapt an alpha mindset

>>18008149

It's this alpha-beta shit that's toxic to you though, dude. You can stand up for yourself and meet girls and live a normal life without your internet memes.

>>18008168
I mean....im meeting girls as much as a guy with eye bags and man boobs can...which is not that much. I have some condition that's stopping my body from physically changing so im forced to try to change myself at the mental level so hopefully i can sleep and not be anxious/depressed

>>18008168
I see where you're coming from though. But I need somewhere to start first. I need a goal, which is why I study this stuff

>>18008183
>>18008185

You sound like a better dude than I was expecting, just don't get too down on yourself.

>>18008188
Man I've been down on myself as long as I can remember. Its also extremely painful to have to overcompensate with your personality when you see people with a good body and the personality of a squirrel get more attention than you