>go to my job
>don't really say much
>just want to do my job and go home
>people start bullying me
>talking about me behind my back
should I just be obnoxious from now on?
>>18006358
it seems like you already are.
what is your job?
>>18006358
From the outside, shyness can look like unfriendliness and aloof disdain. Even if you just want to do your job, you have to be part of the workplace community to some degree, or they will get the impression that you look down your nose at them, and they will react accordingly. All it really takes is a friendly 'good morning' and some basic courtesies during the day.
>>18006387
i work at a warehouse and everyone are is a bunch of spastics familia
>>18006416
i do but they see through it man. they're crazy. they'll find out w ho you are and make you feel like shit
>>18006418
so is the problem you not talking to customers or just not partaking in social interacion with your team mates? if the first, do your job propperly, dingus. if the later, their loss. not everybody likes being social. if it is needed for the team to function you might have to deal with getting replaced asap
>>18006416
this
but sometimes it IS disdain
thought there was a shy girl at work, tried talking to her a bit and she straight up just started ignoring me
how does 'hello' and 'how ya doin' trigger someone so badly?