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>be me, 19 yr old girl >def not raped but sexual abused

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>be me, 19 yr old girl
>def not raped but sexual abused a few years ago
>totally okay with making out with people
>they start to think I'm pretty bold and good at sex because of that
>meet a cute girl from that group of friends
>casual dating? not really a relationship
>get home from a party completely drunk
>start kissing when she push it further
>get a horrible flashback and jerk back
>when qt asks whats wrong say it's because I'm not actually a slut and I don't have sex with friends
>she laughs and understands but I can see her sad face when I say "friends"

I know being honest is the best answer but even through I trust her deply I can't, how can I get over those shitty thoughts? im horny as fuck but I cant allow someone to touch me without getting an ugly feeling
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ptsd therapy prob
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I watched some Ted Talk the other day about PTSD and how they where successfully treating soldiers who had it by making them create art. You could try drawing/painting your abuser and it might help.

No idea if the treatment for different types of PTSD are interchangeable but that's all I got other than see a therapist.
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>>18005678
I never told anyone and it was probably 3 years ago, also the person that did it is part of my closest friends group so I see him regularly and he probably thinks I don't remember cause I was pretty drunk and never mentioned it
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>>18005664
Tell her part of the truth
Don't lie
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>>18005703
Rape him.
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be honest with her, hopefully she would understand and you guys can learn to take it slow till you feel comfortable
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>>18005696
I guess it won't hurt to try, thanks
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If it's your first time having any type of sexual moment with someone else since the incident it seems fairly normal that you're quick to set back from it. Give it time.
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>>18005708
>>18005722
sadly she's not good at keeping secrets, and it's not her fault, she thinks she needs to help everyone and when she doesn't know what to do she ask for advice to her best friends, I know it's stupid to think she will tell something like this to her friends but idk, maybe I'm just overthinking because Im not good with telling personal stuff without feeling like a burden
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>>18005758
You are lying fat cow.
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>>18005712
Wow what a nigger thing to do.
Nigger.
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