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How do you not be needy as a 24yo virgin? I work on myself but

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How do you not be needy as a 24yo virgin? I work on myself but I'm still desperate for sex and relationships and therefore drive women off.
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Bump

Had enough of the constant friendzones and rejections
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just don't be needy
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>>17999918
Wow thx
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>>17999920
no problem
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>>17999928
Any real advice?
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>>17999857
cynisism
lets be honest, even if you sis manage to get laid would it fix anything by now?
do you realize how much experience girls have? you would be completely boring to them
if it ddnt happen by now, well you are in the 3% of the population that made it this far, you could aswell spend the rrest of your life like this by now
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>>17999981
>If you don't fuck by age 24 you should never fuck at all!

Classic /adv/ """""advice""""".

PS: "Get a vasectomy" is shorter and more to the point.
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>>17999964
Kys?
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>>17999857
Not experience much but the only woman that was ever interested in me was because I had 0 expectations of anything working out between us.

No bullshit drama and attention seeking, just go without ill intentions and speak with them. Tell them her opinions are shit and that she's a pleb. Disagree and bantz, talk about shit that you like. Whatever the fuck it is. Anime? Videogames? Who cares, just be real. A girl became my friend once because i openly liked playing Yugioh and she was closeted about it.

Don't try to put up a mask of prefection. Be the fuckup of a human being that you are, own it, and people will be inclined to spend time with you since you're being the realest motherfucker in the hood.
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>>17999857
OP don't sweat being a virgin. It only means that you took a different life path than everyone else. There is nothing wrong with that. Don't listen to anyone who makes fun of you.

Now to getting you laid. Read some books on seduction. Yes it sounds cheezy and silly but, you need to understand how women work if you want to stand a chance. Everyone wants to complain about how women are horrible, well they are if you hold them to the standards of men. Last time I checked I wanted a vagina and a woman.

Start understanding why you are desperate. Are you afraid of being alone? Are you scared to let someone see you naked? Figure out what is making your mind shift to negative thoughts. You are in control of how you react, always remember that.

The option process is a really good book on helping yourself heal. The only thing you need is yourself and the want to be happy.
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Two decent options. Lower your standards. Knock your V off with someone you normally wouldnt talk to.

Option 2. Go to church and be patient. If you participate enough you will meet a woman in a similar siruation.
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Honestly just meeting lots of new girls every week is gonna change that. Might need to change your attitude. Your goal when going out should be this: "Try to have a great conversation with at least one nice girl. Everything else is just a bonus." Not: "I want to fuck a woman tonight."
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Fake it.

Act like u don't have ur V card.

It's okay to be somewhat desperate. When a guy hits Ina girl, there is a sense of desperation, a subtle one if you're smooth. It's just the way life goes. You have to be vulnerable, go out of your way, to satisfy your needs.

If you're content, that's seen as confident, and if you actively reject women on the basis of your business, improvement, or whatever, well, that gets the girls wet if they see your determination to pursue what you want. And when they see you are pursuing them with the same driven intent, well, let's just say you'll get a lot of panties wet.

T. Psycho
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Alright walk me through a typical interaction with a woman. Where do you meet her? What do you talk about?
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>>18000037
Best way is to compliment her clothing /belongings. For example say, you really like the motive on her shirt and ask her something about it or where she got it.

If she likea you she will respond positivley and continue the conversation, if not.. just move on ;)
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>>18000037
Lets say your at a party/bar/club and you see a girl glancing at you occasionally, next time you notice her looking at you, you smile. If she smiles back just walk up to her and introduce yourself. (You can also just ignore this and just walk up to a woman, but getting looks is a good way to know shes at least a little bit interested). From that point on you just start asking her a million questions mixed with a few anecdotes and stories you just made up. (They should be at least partially believable) And by the end of the evening, you'll probably have a number/date/one night stand.
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>>17999997
It's hard not to let it get to me.
What >>17999981 said really irks me. It's so true. Women have had so many boyfriends and sexual partners by now and I've had none. How am I ever going to get a good woman? I'll probably become a wizard and settle for an obese 2/10 if it continues.

Where did it all go wrong?
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>>18000037
Women love to talk about themselves, so just ask her about what she does, why she did choose that job, how she likes the city, where shes from, what her plans are for the future, literally anything. The more you get to know about her, the more specific questions you can ask
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Become a red pill or even MGTOW.
Listen to red pillers and MGTOW who've been there, done that.
Read their wisdom.
See women for who they are.

Never have this problem again.

You still have full access to porn, prostitution and random hookups. The last one requires you some game, still.
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>>18000137
Aka stay a virgin
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>>18000149

There are worse things waiting for him than keeping his virginity. Maybe if he realizes that society is brainwashing him to do shit that will backfire at him.

Or maybe he has to go through it himself, rather than skipping a step. The hard way. But then I'm not sure how to cure his desperation.
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>>18000158
You can do all of that without becoming red pill. Of course theres some truth to it, but in reality it will just make him hate women and be bitter.
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>>18000171
Fuck red pill. I'm already bitter enough I don't need more of that shit.
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>>18000158
>society is brainwashing

Or maybe shit people are shit and that's all. Taking a braindead vapid slut like >>18000137
and generalising to all women is exactly as retarded as being a feminist and being convincd that all men are rapists unless gelded.

Same thing, absolutely not the tiniest difference.

You're just male versions of pink-haired fatso feminist SJWs who pick a new gender every day because they know no actual man would ever consider them as sex partners.
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>>17999857
https://youtu.be/nuWpYsDeeSo
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get a prostitute, once you see what a girl will do for a little money you wont be such a scared little bitch desu
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