how do i become that type of guy who just winds up having sex

>>17999780
Seconded. I don't know how people do it.

They make it seem so easy.

>>17999794
They don't.

90% are simply lying about their conquests, and the other 10% play a long odds game, being shot down dozens of times for every success with a settle-for-him drunk girl at the end of a drunken night.

>>17999780
It's all luck and situational. I reckon there's an art to it.

>>17999780
1. be a sexual person

2. be friends with the girls

3. wait

>>17999780
Just become a Chad

>>17999835
>be a sexual person

Don't know how.

>>17999835
>wait
how long?

>>17999868
This might sound moronic but sex is fun, right?
So just be fun and relaxed. Not speaking for the homo and bi population, but I always enjoyed having girls as friends because sex is an option. Just make sure they perceive it that way, too. Dirty humor helps.

>>17999956
What I'm naturally high-strung and melancholic?

>>17999968
then stop being that

>>17999972
Well, shit, then.

>>17999973
Nobody on here is smart enough to give advice beyond "don't do x".

I recommend finding a different site, most of /adv/'s population is /b/tards and bitter /r9k/ virgins, neither can rub two neurons together to spark good advice.

Exposure. To lots of women.

They are attractive and then the girls come to them.

Like a guy at my office. New women at the workplace gravitate towards him and orbit around him.

If i talk to them, they're polite, but theyre not interested in me and they fo not orbit me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrMFjcxkMo4

you have to not care about whether you're going to have sex, and you have to have girls hanging out comfortable in close proximity . basically you will need lots of friends and your own place and amazing social skills.

stop being a needy little bitch why the fuck you need us to tell you how? thats how faggot

be Chad

>>17999780

For OP or anyone wondering, step one is hanging out with girls. Get that down and come back here for more.

>>17999894
30 years and counting

>>17999780
Your putting the pussy on a pedestal man!

>>17999968
Play the game the rest of us are playing.

Wait for that "other" person, and don't settle for some dumb chick that you had to "talk into"