pic non related Sup /adv/ so basically I have a girl who happens

now I dont know what to do or how to patch things up with my girlfriend. Ive already tried to reassure her and explain, but she just doesnt understand. Eventually I said I would spend less time with Amy if that made her feel better about the situation, however she is still extremely upset with me. Ive literally done fuckall wrong here and I have not even looked at another girl while he have been dating and I am pretty hurt that she cant even remotely understand and how much of a bitch she has been about it.

>>17999416
Hypothetically speaking, if you were both single, would you be interested in dating/having sex with Amy?

>>17999427
Not really. If I am honest I kinda share a similar relationship with her as I do with my older sister. My sister just has her own business now and is constantly busy so we barely talk anymore.

>>17999427
Amy is pretty and my room mates have often made comments about it when my girlfriend has been around, but I dont really even notice it. We have both been single and been friends and nothing happened, she was still the friend who I tried to set up with some of my friends and vice versa.

>>17999416

You're a fucking retard OP and one of these self-fulfilling prophecy type cheaters. Additionally, how would you feel if your gfs 'best friend' was some she had drunken sex with, talked to all the time, and gave clear signs that she would rather talk to him before you? I don't think you would be very happy with that.

>>17999446

Well by hookup I meant made out with when we were drunk in freshman year. I spend so much time with my girlfriend and only really speak to amy when her or I have family shit, mostly her family shit as mine has calmed down.

I just came back from a 3 week holiday in thailand with my girlfriend. She basically lives with me.

I just dont want to share all the embarrassing and fucked up shit with her because I really care what she thinks about me and I dont want to scare her away. My siblings have been the same.

>>17999457
Let me tell you what I mean by self-fulfilling prophecy anon

>I dont want to tell my gf thing x because of reason y
>I know! I'll tell my close friend who my gf is extremely nervous/jealous about
>Oh no...she found out and exploded. Well now I'm REALLY anxious and need to talk to my friend about it
>oh No! It totally spiraled out of control and now my gf is even angrier/the relationship is over

>>17999446

My girlfriend had a guy friend that she used to chill with and I thought he was my friend too and I didnt really care too much about it. My girlfriend even told me that he had tried shit with her before we had started dating but she batted him. I was still fine with it. However then he started flirting with her infront of me and she just didnt pick it up. Eventually our mutual friends made comments about it. He was very touchy and so many people pointed it out to me. So i told my girlfriend, I wasnt upset with her, but I pointed it out as she is kind of oblivious to that kind of thing. I just said I was angry at him as he crossed the line and disrespected me as a friend. I didnt tell her to stop spending time with him, all I said was he made me feel uncomfortable and it upset me when he kept on trying infront of me.

Whereas amy and I are not like that at all. Not touchy at all, she has never given my girlfriend any reason to think that there is anything dodgy going on.

>>17999464
Well I didnt know my gf was nervous/jealous about amy. When I told her about her friend, she was chilled and just mentioned amy and then I reassured her and she seemed cool about it. Amy and her boyfriend even spent time with us.

She didnt find anything out really, she asked me what I was doing and I told her that amy and some of my other friends had come over for my room mates birthday and she suddenly got all weird about it. I dont hide stuff from her, because I dont have alterior motives or anything to hide. I just find it uncomfortable to tell her everything about my family life as hers seems so normal and she always used to go on holidays and got on really well with her ex boyfriends family and that wont happen with us, which is something im insecure about.