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Boyfriend is a pathological liar, night after night says he will

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Boyfriend is a pathological liar, night after night says he will change and is sorry but nothing changes and I feel really unloved. What do I do? is he ever going to change? He just seems so self pitying.
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>>17997595
He wont change until his surroundings force him to. That might not be you, because pathological liars are afraid of speaking the truth in fear of persecution (from you, family & friends etc.)

If you already gave him a chance (or chances) and he still hasn't changed, either give him an ultimatum or break up; don't let him drag you down to a point where you cant help but feel shit about yourself.
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>>17997595
are you that same French girl who posted a few threads here about falling head over heels for the guy with mythomania
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>>17997612

My ultimatum is that I'll leave but he always sweet talks me into staying by saying he really is sorry and he will change...

I've yet to see him actually do either though
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>>17997842
It works for him since you stay anyway. Just leave. You can't change people
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I am that guy. He loves you with his whole heart because he tries to keep you, but he won't change.

Really sad to say, and I hate myself for it but I am the exact same way.

Even when she broke up and crushed my heart into a thousand bits of cold glass I still haven't changed, and I actually got far worse. Dark advice, I know but let's hope its only me and not him.
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(((Dump him)))

Coming from someone who was abusive in a similar way, this was the only action my gf took that made me reconsider myself. If he can keep getting away with it he will..
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>>17997595

What kind of change are you asking for? Reasonable, small change, like washing the dishes or picking up his own mess?

Or is it something deeply ingrained into his own character that you somehow thought you could force out of him, like his interests or his friends?
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