Guys, I need a piece of advice. My boyfriend doesn't want

>>17992949
That is weird for a 9 month long relationship no matter how many times you've had sex.

Strong possibilities that he's either cheating or he's lost his attraction to you.

>>17992956
This

Not even worth salvaging imo, can't help him if he doesn't want to make a change. Go be an awesome gf for a better guy

The thing in the bedroom is a symptom. Whats the problem? My guess is porn or nagging.

OP here
>>17992987
He does watch a lot of porn and has a very specific type.He wants me to recreate it completely but I don't like it when its so staged and not a casual desire for making love with me.

>>17993028
Do you guys live together or see each other too often? Are you dumping on him emotionally?

If no to either, he's just lost interest or seeing someone else. Find a guy who'll treat you right and vet them better next time.

>>17992949
he is either jerking too much or is cheating on you, likely the former>>17993028 since you said this

ask him to dial it back i guess

>>17993060
He lives far away from me and he's planning on moving in by the end of the year but we do meet very often and spend a lot of time together.He is not cheating in that I am absolutely sure.He told me that I am forcing it too much and he just doesn't feel horny.I really don't understand this.I told him I need some time but he thinks I am not serious and continues texting me and trying to talk to me.

>>17992949
lose weight and stop being needy

>>17993095
Surprisingly, I don't have a "weight problem".Wanting to have passionate sexual life with your significant other is not being "needy" but is something absolutely normal and basically crucial.

>>17993028
What type? Perhaps there's a way of making it not feel staged.

>>17993090
Take a sex break. I've gone through the same thing where for some reason I just didn't have much of a sex drive. I tried to go through the motions for awhile, but then we agreed to just be celibate for a bit since it just wasn't working for me. After a little over a monthit was like a flip switched and all I wanted to do was fuck.

Never really figured out what caused it but I agree with him and to just quite trying to force it. If it persists it could be depression or something along those lines.

>>17992949
You two have to talk about that, maybe you're not the problem, maybe he's having some problems, depression maybe, you have to make him open himself and say what he's feeling, maybe he doesn't know the source of this problem too. Talking to each other and being honesty its the best solution, cause it's really weird a guy with only 9 months of relationship doenst want to have sex, if you were 9 year married he would what? being an eunuch?

Im alot like your bf. There are times where I want to pillage the seven seas with my cock and other times where i can't be bothered to do a quicky. Surely, there is a chance he is cheating on you but I wouldn't all in on that idea without additional signs.
Stress is a large factor for my penis, so consider helping him destress if possible. Eventually his wiener will be down to clown. If you are the type that craves sex often, it may be worth considering finding a new partner or investing in a solid sex toy to tide you over in dry spells.

He's not worthy.

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