So, this might be little long, but I'm gonna try to keep it as short as I can. I have a close friend from high school who has been friends with me for 7 years. After ending a toxic, long-term relationship, we started talking more and started getting sexually involved. We've had sex a few times and I think I'm starting to catch feelings for him, even though we're basically fwb. HOWEVER,I know he hasn't treated girls all that well in the past. I do know that he doesn't mind getting into a relationship, though, because he almost did not too long ago. I also don't know that he would feel the same way about me. I want to tell him how I feel, but idk if I should and how I should do it. What should I do? I feel really lost.
>>17986702
Nope. You are not thinking straight. If you were in a long relationship that just ended, you should take several months off from dating. You need to separate yourself and regain your individuality. If you do not, you will be destined to find the same toxicity.
>>17986702
there's no right answer. tell him and maybe lose what you got... or mabye get something better.
but try to find out if you're feelings are even good. its easy to get feelings for someone you have sex with but htat doesn't mean you should date them. oncei t becoems a relationship that magic is often lost.
>>17986710
it's been about two months. how much time should i take off from dating?
>>17986710
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>>17986731
I'd say 4 months at the minimum, but honestly closer to 6.
>>17986817
my first breakup so idk how this whole thing goes down