How do I stop thinking about a grill I'm in love with /adv/? Is such a thing even possible? I see her almost everyday and when I don't see her I get terribly depressed but on the days I see her I can't even concentrate on anything and just get lost in thought.
Notice how the question is not "how do I get this grill to be interested in me?" or "how do I start a conversation with her?".
There's no hope for me to be with this girl, she has a boyfriend and I'm an ex-NEET with zero life experience, so I won't even attempt to make a move.
I literally just need to know how to get her out of my head. Will I just lose interest eventually? I sure fucking hope so because I can't take this shit anymore.
>>17985902
you rationalize that you can't have her, but you obsess because there is a sliver of hope. either come to terms and make the choice to no longer want her, or simply make a move and let her crush you so its over.
>>17985902
>will i lose interest eventually
depends. if you keep pining, probably not. it makes us build up an imaginary relationship in our heads.
>>17985902
Do you know how you stop a crush? Make real female acquaintances. Instead of looking from afar and imagining the girl, make real friends with girls and maybe even try dating some. Best cure for silly crushes there is.
>>17985923
I might just do this. Tell her how I feel about her and let her completely crush me with her response.
>>17985926
>it makes us build up an imaginary relationship in our heads
Too true. But yeah honestly it's gonna be tough to lose interest considering I see her five days a week.
>>17985931
b-but all the other girls are boring, even though they are probably hotter than her.
>>17985959
you are stronger than you think if you allow yourself to be the master of your destiny. but in the meantime letting her cursh you also works
>>17985964
Maybe my destiny is letting her crush my soul.
>>17986070
whatever helps you sleep at night. you know, alone.
>>17985959
>b-but all the other girls are boring, even though they are probably hotter than her.
This is a joke, right? I'm pretty sure of the thousands of girls around you, one must be at least as interesting as her.