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I can't get why the fuck am i like this.
> be me
> have a gf (now ex)
> was perfect 10/10 , caring, had alot of sex, clingy (yeah i like it, I've got some mommy/daddy issues....)
> i got bored after 7 months
> new gf
> even better
> 11/10
> even better than the last one and the last one was amazing
> got bored of her after couple of months
> be me now
> new gf
> she's a 8/10
> not to smart
> not to pretty
> not the type to have any significant talk it's just gossip shit from her friends and her social media and random shit
> not thay much sex
> she's jelous as fuck
> always fight cuz' she's insecure in herself
> I'VE BEEN WITH HER FOR 3 YEARS NOW.
Can someone please tell me what the fuck am i doing and why?
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>>17985847
you're co dependent and weak and cant stand being alone so would rahter be with someone you can't stand
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>>17985847
You're a masochist?
Or maybe you're too stupid to appreciate what you have.
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>>17985857
Tbh I've got like "moodswings" from time to time when it comes to that. A certain amount of time i like to be alone with no girls whatsoever and the other way around.
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What was your relationship with your mother like? Was she overly critical and/or distant?
In that case you might feel ike you don't "deserve" these girls who are very attractive and good for you. This sounds incredibly corny but I've been in the same position. I tend to treat the men who are good for me horribly, just horribly. for example, I went out on a series of stupid dating site dates and the men I found the most attractive were the ones I took great delight in hurting. And then I find myself devoted to the most worthless guy I know, who also treats me with complete disdain. It's a sickness.
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>>17985860
Not a masochist at all, im the other way around. I'm a dom in every possible way (it fucks me over from time to irl but that's not what I'm here for)
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>>17985866
My mom is a single mother, she raised me alone. She has a very explosive personality, and is very emotional, wich I'm not except from the explosive part but I've got it under control, took me some time but it's good now.
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>>17985847
You crave problems in a relationship
you think if there are no problems the relationship is boring
aka youre a drama queen who craves drama
Go watch a movie instead
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>>17985887
And I'm gonna get over it if i find a "perfect" gf again and make myself go deeper into the relationship instead of droping them off when i get bored or?
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>>17985868
Maybe you're an emotional masochist.
It's not all about hair pulling and slapping. Emotional domination and submission is probably the most insidious kind.
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>>17986002
If i were one I'd probably known that. This is my first relationship like this, every single relationship beside this was different and not as slightly similar as this one and i had long relationships too the second most durable was 2 and a half years
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