How do you deal with envy?
There's this guy in my social circles who's perfect in every way that I'm not and I fucking hate his ass.
>>17984697
fuck him right in the ass
>>17984697
>perfect in every way I'm not
Explain.
>>17984697
Get to know him and realize he's fucked up somehow because no one is perfect.
>>17984697
I wish I could also stop envying people too.
I don't like to feel this way. I really feel you OP because I don't want to be a shitty person but I don't know what i should do to stop
Every time I see someone more attractive, with more money, with talents, with a life that seems perfect I crack a little inside. I start chanting "why me" "why did my parents raised me this bad" "why am I so lazy" "why am I so ugly in comparison to these people"
I wish this could stop and I've tried to feel happy and content with who I am and what I have but this is hell on earth
I don't want to be bitter but it's like I'm wired this way.
Plz help
>>17984733
He's tall, good-looking, knows how to behave himself and won't blurt out weird shit at wrong times.
>>17984764
So learn to imitate him without directly copying him? AKA: stop being a sperglord?
>>17984773
I'm still short and ugly.
I've tried to learn to be more quiet and reserved but it's surprisingly difficult. I forget myself every time.
>>17984825
Have you asked him about it?
>>17984869
Well I know what his background is, I don't think he considers it anything to admire.
>>17984697
is the picture from that fucking baseball game
>>17984825
>I've tried to learn to be more quiet and reserved
WHY?
Learn some auto irony instead, learn how to laugh at your own fallaces and then learn how to laugh at the fallaces of the others, that's your only way.
Be like a satyr, speak, be funny, hide your uglyness with words and wits
>>17984764
the last two aren't necessarily bad and the first two are nothing you should give that much importance to. move on