>26 >Come to find out 4 year girl friend recently cheated

Hey man don't let this bring you down. It's rough being placed in this situation but I've got a good friend who was in your situation. He had this relationship with a girl for a good 3 years and they even got their own apartment. But as time progressed she started being very hostile and even got violent with him. They broke up a year ago while they had a lease signed together and she just went up and left. My friend had a difficult time and he struggled but is doing great now. He's got a co worker helping him out with the apartment costs. As for his ex she left and lives near while still being violent and hateful. He got through his situation and was able to keep his place. Hey man you gotta love yourself and always strive for improvement. Your not perfect but remember that you have a lot to give. Don't give up and keep fighting . You'll get through this. If your ex wants to throw away what she had then make her regret it. Go to the gym to improve yourself. Get out there and start trying some new things man. Know that you are the person who determines your own worth. You are in control of your future. Stay strong man I know you can get through this

>>17978352
You could always, remove, the problem. Any deep rivers or large forests near you?

>>17978352
Maybe work on the relationship. Do you know what exactly she wasn't happy with? Havenyou tried tying her up and fucking her until she cums so many times that she passes out?

>>17978566

Jesus christ. I am sorry to hear about your friend. Definitely if he can do that then this should be easy...

>>17978636

Oh trust me I thought about that. Mostly kicking the shit out of that other guy. Hes in town now actually. I do have like 5 people who would love to kick his ass but it would make shit worse.

>>17978697

She said she was distant and alone from me. And that she had no independence and that I "objectified her". Which I think he put a lot of those ideas in her head. Never did I tell her she cant do something but I just simply told her that some things made me unconformable

For example her smoking pot. I used to but just being around it brings back my thoughts of panic attacks and anxiety and I just said Id prefer it not be around me.

Or that I worry about her doing acid since its the last thing someone like her whos super depressed all the time needs.

She was in fact the one who was controlling. Used her depression to make me do what she wanted. Even simple tasks like getting her water when shes perfectly able or one time I had to lie about seeing a movie with my best friend who is a dude (same dude I mentioned) without making her upset.

And if I did then Id be send on a massive guilt trip about how that depresses her. So often Id just do it so she dosnt become sad. But it when it came to me telling her about something I had an issue with it was a huge fucking deal and she fought me over it.

Thats prolly why she thinks that.

>>17978697

I should also add shes made it very clear shes done as have I. Because if we were to get back together I made it clear she cant talk to him anymore because what happened.

Especially since I got caught flirting with a girl one time then dropped it immediately. It wasnt even a mutual feeling but she couldnt do that and prolly because she was so done with the relationship as she felt that way for months according to her.

>>17978765
>Because if we were to get back together

Yea it's going to sound like a meme but you need to get your manhood back. If by luck she isn't on the lease you should kick her ass out immediately and cut contact.

Good luck man but it's not worth it to get back together.

>>17978352
Hate rape her. That's what I did to my ex gf, and thanks to my charisma the police didn't believe her.

Welcome to the wonderful world of women.
Women are always looking to trade out, and usally have several guys ready. They don't give a fuck about you, get used to it.
This is why it's so risky to live with a girl, she'll drop you the second she's board or the second she finds something better. Accept this, don't fight me on this.