>Dating girl
>Sort of into her, but not too much
>Personality wise, 10/10
>Looks wise, 5/10
She isn't horrible looking, but I'm just not into her physically at all.
What do I do in this situation? We've been dating for a bit more than a month, and I'm supposed to pick her up tomorrow to hang out, and I just really don't feel like it. I should also add, its been a long month. She is super insecure, and needs to have contact with me all day.
Do I hope that I become more attracted to her because her personality is so great, do I cut ties, what? I really don't want to hurt her, but fuck I don't know what to do.
bampu
>>17974117
What is she fat?
>>17974117
Is she fat or just ugly?
Are you okay with her being insecure and clingy? Cause if you're just tolerating it now, you'll become smothered/annoyed by it later. If so, I'd cut your losses
>>17974219
She is chubby, not too heavy though. I've dated heavier girls.
She just isn't that attractive in general.
I've literally never had to turn someone down, always been the one to be turned down.
>>17974238
I'd say dump. You can't force an attraction. You sound like a chubby chaser. The world is your playground. There's plenty of better looking fat girls
Haha. I was literally in that same position. Listen man if you're not attracted to her you're not attracted to her.
If you don't want to hurt her feelings, find out things she doesn't like in a guy and start doing them. That's what I did.