how ok is it to tell you bf he has to put in more effort in getting

I'd tell him specifics to be more helpful. "I would really love it if you did x more." "I love it when you do x" "Hey let's do x". "X my x" You get what I'm saying. Specifics.

But I also don't think you should stop having sex unless you're horny. It's just the truth that sometimes your partner is going to be horny when you aren't and vice versa. Good, loving partners takes care of each other's needs. It doesn't even have to be piv sex, a bj or handy work fine.

>>17971837
ok, sounds good. i'll do that.
problem is, so far i have never rejected any advances because i always hoped i would get "in the mood" if i partake but it just doesn't work and i'm really tired of having sex despite not being horny. it isn't enjoyable, so why should i keep doing that on that rate? i get that sometimes you will have to make compromises and i'm ok with that. guess it is also my fault for not giving better pointers on how he COULD get me in the mood. thanks for you help, anon

>>17971855
Different anon here, but are you the anime girl?

>>17971855
No problem OP, good luck

>>17971872
not that i know

Hey bitch make me horny or I'm not sleeping with your shrimp dick ass. EZ