>ask longtime female friend to go out to eat with me
>she says yes
>later enthusiastically tells me we should do stuff again
>end up doing the same thing week later then drink and watch animu at her place
>realize I have no idea if my intentions are clear or if she considered either of the above as a date
should I just straight up let her know how I feel or what
if so then like when or where is good
she'll probably be at my place this friday but I dunno if it will come off weird there
sorry I know I'm a sperg
>>17970953
just keep doing this kind of stuff and try to get more physical contact and when the moment feels right and you're both drunk kiss her or something.
Why not just confess?
Take her up to the school rooftop, and sugoi at her baka ne until she suki desus your koitsu.
>>17970953
Keep hanging out with her, even though you're longtime friends trying to confess your love for her on a second 'date' might be a bit too much. Keep doing what you're doing and you'll get your answer soon enough.
>>17970961
I done this unintetnionally before. Nice lady. Would recommend
dont tell her you like her straight up
that confessing shit is stupid
heres a step by step guide
next time when you hang out with her-
when you have a quiet moment
lock eyes for a couple secs, smile/smirk a bit
look off and up to the side a bit, maintain your cool demeanor
look back and guide her chin towards you and go for a light kiss on her lip
see how she responds
if she gets shy and smiles
tadaaa no need to thank me op
if she recoils and it goes sour
things werent meant to be
and also stop watching anime
>>17970953
Have a friend call you and ask what youre upto.
"Hanging with femanom"
>"OH On a date with the bea. Ic ic."
"Nah its not... is this a date? Yo let me check.
Turn to girl
Hey, are these dates? "
>>17971019
>and also stop watching anime
Don't listen to this terrible advice, OP.
>>17970953
did you hold her hand? try to kiss her? these are the things that make it a date. a romantic edge. if you aren't making any moves then she has no reason to think its anything than just friends hanging otu.