So I have a bit of an issue with my stubborness thats causing

>>17970261
Just talk to him and point out stupid bullshit.

>>17970338
That isnt really easy. He refuses to talk about it and will not see reason

If it's very minor and stupid then you could be the bigger person and let it go.

Maybe enlighten us to the BS so we can see what's the go?

>>17970352
And what exactly are you stubborn about?

>>17970370
Well essentially we had a group that he was leader of on discord, and whenever we got into an argument he would kick me from the group, so I said if you won't give your leadership to someone more reliable or make a new one I can't rejoin as he would get buttmad and do this a lot.

>>17970376
So you fought over what to do in a video game and this has put the friendship into jeopardy?

That... really is stupid.

Just don't play video games with him anymore.

Or accept that his autism makes change incredibly hard, and unless you are also autistic, that you have the role of being the fluid one.

Which is more important?
Keeping him as a friend and maybe sucking at video games, or not having him as a friend and sucking less/being good at video games?

>>17970399
First of all discord is how you talk to people online in groups, so no not quite.

Second of all I would never stop playing vidya with him.

>>17970415
I know what Discord is.

Then just play the game. If this is the only problem then you have a better friendship than a lot of people.

Or get the group involved. Or make a new channel that you're the leader of and invite everyone to that one, but that could turn messy and would only work if the groups numbers were low and everyone was willing.

Otherwise, just have fun playing the game with a good friend, even if he is a stubborn douchebag sometimes.

Gently reminding him now and then may also, eventually, maybe lead to him being more receptive. Maybe. Depends on if he is the self reflecting type.

>>17970440
Thats probably not bad advice