Why did I stop wanting a relationship with this girl the moment

>>17970097
you want what you can't have

>>17970097
You like the chase

>>17970097
because you want to chase women not be with them

i swear this happens to me aswell. maybe it's the fact that i got so used to being rejected and it just gets me by surprise.

>>17970097
You like the idea of feeling validated and desired and go to extra lengths to affirm your own attractiveness and value. When you finally get what you're looking for from one person it isn't as satisfying anymore.

>>17970097
You're an insecure faggot.

>>17970104
>>17970107
>>17970110
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>>17970175

It's just this girl in particular, though. It never really happened before.

WHAT THE FUCK IS WITH YOU GUYS AND THE FUCKING WORD 'CONFESSED'

THIS IS NOT A FUCKING CHURCH WHY ARE YOU 'CONFESSING'? LOOK AT THE DEFINITION;

>admit that one has committed a crime or done something wrong.
>acknowledge something reluctantly, typically because one feels slightly ashamed or embarrassed.

You just fucking have feelings for another human being, what the fuck do you need to confess? This is the whole fucking problem, and you ask "Oh why do I lose my feelings as soon as I confess?"

Here's a fucking idea you idiots, just fucking TELL someone how you feel without having to put the sway of guilt and reluctance into it. If you were a LOT less loaded with this emotional baggage it would be far easier for you and you'd likely find that your flippant nature disappears.

>>17970423

good advice