How do I get my ex back?
>dated for 2 years
>lived together for 6 months
>the kind of man I'd take a bullet for
>had a fight over something stupid, somehow got ugly
>he left and moved away
>it's been 2 months
>said he wants to get back together
>I try to resist, tell him we need to move on
>obsesses over me
>I finally cave because I love him so fucking much
>can't come see me because of his job
>starts ignoring me
>I decide to do no contact
>he starts calling again
>I don't answer, hasn't called in 2 days
I need some male perspective on this y'all.
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I'm trying to work things out with an ex too, I'm male.
The only thing that has worked for me is no contact. If they still contact you during no contact just say "Hey I think it's best if we don't talk. I'd love to see you but if that's not possible I think we should both move on."
Stand your ground and don't settle for less than you want. You want him to come see you, not just text you.
>>17969638
You don't... You just fucking move one, forget about him/her... I also wish my ex got back to me, but oh well, I think it is almost imposible...
You may ask, "What now"?
Get yourself together, Move to Philly. Buy a loft. Start a noise band. Get six or seven room mates... Eat hummus with them. Book some gigs. Burn down an Applebee's. Listen to Animal Collective. Start some kind of salsa company... Idk it is up to you. Self-improve is the best path.
>>17969638
Move on. There's too many people in the world and too little time to waste it on anyone.
>>17969638
Men are like dogs when they get his they come back but, women are like cats once they get hit they disappear forever. Sorry op she gone
>>17969638
Move on without him. You gave him a chance and he blew it. Stand tall, you'll make it through.