Why can I care about a girl so much when they couldn't give

>>17966012
Just think, she probably cares the same way about someone who doesn't give a shit about her

Life is cruel

>>17966012
because we want what we can't have. it strokes our egos. it's why people have orbiters and allow it to happen; it's about our egos.

Learn to find people that returns your attraction and be done with egos.

>>17966015
I think about her so much and it hurts knowing it's a waste of time

>>17966070
Have you considered drinking?

Kidding aside, the pain is normal. You'll get over it once you let time do its magic. In the meantime, occupy yourself with other shit, meet people, take care of yourself, whatever. She'll seem less special if you find other occasions to feel things, other people to appreciate. Good luck.

you don't care about them , you are just really desperate for the to accept you and you've been brainwashed to believe that being suffocatingly "nice"/caring is the way to get that, probably by your single mother

Read a book. Almost every novel ever written describes your predicament. But you may consider that your adoration itself is predicated on her lack thereof. I know I'm like this with men.

>>17966118
I'm not clingy at all. Before her I've never starved for acceptance from others and I still don't it just sucks that the first person I loved doesn't care about me

>>17966211
Go no contact, immediately.

I can help you if I get some more information. Your age, hers, the length of the friendship, why you think she doesn't care about you, etc.