what does it take to get a guy into that "if you won't

Elaborate

For the lower IQ not really much
For others constantly teasing them

You trying to make your boyfriend rape you OP? You know all you have to do is ask right?

>>17965812
teasing and denial

send nudes all day at work, when he gets home play with his dick through his pants.

i get super turned on when a chick is kissing my dick through my pants, and I swear to god if she doesn't get that dick out and start sucking it, she's about to have it forced down her throat until I nut.

>>17965839
how do i tease somebody to that point without them saying "fuck this shit" and lose interest?

yeah, i know. it would just be more fun if he wasn't just acting like it

>>17965836
animal mode. basically when instincts take over and a guy just HAS to have you and his urge to procreate trashes all social inhibitions.

It's not always something you can control. Requisites:

>Attracted to you
>horny

Horny usually requires testosterone, energy, and present sexual dissatisfaction. What I mean by that is if he faps a lot to porn he is consistently satisfied, and isn't likely to get that level of horny.

Testosterone and exercise will be the main drivers of horniness. Porn will be the main reliever.

>>17965849
>getting sexual attention
>losing interest

Are you fat?

>>17965849
>yeah, i know. it would just be more fun if he wasn't just acting like it
Well your boyfriend probably isn't retarded so thats your only choice besides dating someone who has a retard-tier IQ (85 or under)

>>17965849
I thought everyone goes into animal mode. I do anyway.

>>17965848
i've sent him nudes a long time ago. oddly enough, now i'm too shy to do so. how do i get over this? it just seems so weird to send him nudes.

>>17965850
then i got good cards.
he's in military and can't/doesn't fap during the week. so he comes home on the weekend witheout having had an orgasm for 5 days.
he also gets plenty of exercise during the week and as far as i can judge, his test is pretty high.

i tried that whole denial thing a few times but he just gets frustrated and thinks i'm playing games with him (which i do...). i told him it gets me realmy horny to tease him but he's not thrilled at all. what can i do to make him enjoy the teasing?

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>>17965849
Dude just tell him to fucking rape you and to not half ass it, this shouldn't be hard for %80 of men, LITERALLY ASK AND SOMEBODY WILL BE DOING THE RAPING

>>17965864
Maybe nothing? He might just not be into it. If you're just teasing him over text then he could be taking it many different ways.

>>17965864
Just take cute selfies, but include your tits.

Push 'em up, lick 'em, whatever, make it profile picture quality.

Nobody really wants to see your pussy in a cell phone pic anyway, too much can go wrong, so just keep the tits out and be suggestive.

Pencil him in for a 2 hour long blowjob or something whe he gets home while he watches TV or otherwise relaxes.

>>17965856
i meant more a "this is really frustrating, can we just have sex now and stop the stupid games?" way.

>>17965858
yes, i am aware. obviously, i don't really want him to rape me. just kind of get into a state where all he can think about is inseminate me

>>17965812
>touch thigh
>get real close (physically touching)
>speak in soft voice
>basically touch as much as you can

This is how girls have got me in this mode, without just saying "fuck me"

>>17965864
You can't, it's a personal preference. He feels frustrated or humiliated by it, so be it. You did all you can by explaining that you enjoy it and there's no bad intentions on your side. It's just incompatibility.

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Heres how you get what you want OP

>come into house yelling
>take your shirt off
>smack him in the face pretty hard
>say "rape me you piece of shit"
congrats you got what you wanted, if hes not doing it hard enough tell him "harder you fucking pussy"

>>17965868
>yes, i am aware. obviously, i don't really want him to rape me. just kind of get into a state where all he can think about is inseminate me
Tell him exactly what you want in an extremely vulgar and aggressive way, we are literally programmed to know how to do this, you are treating men like we're some kind of animal you need to train to have sex, trust me we don't need training.

>>17965865
mkay. i'll try that

>>17965866
in what ways?

>>17965867
ok, i can do that.

>>17965869
the "beating around the bush" tactic. works pretty well. but if i overdo it, he just takes my hand and shoves it down his pants (which is pretty hot but kind of ruins my plan).

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>>17965864
Other anons have covered it pretty well. He's not into it. If you want someone to rape you though we can help.

Do you expect him to be into something he isn't into? Would you expect him to be able to get you into something you're not into? If you discover the magic please share because I've been trying to get my gf into anal for a few years now.

>>17965879
>mkay. i'll try that
Send him here afterwards, I want an advice review

>>17965873
i'm not convinced. i'm sure he has it in him and is just too polite to let it out

>>17965876
why should i be yelling? smack him? dude...


>>17965878
i know you don't. but some guys (especially my bf) are too restricted to connect to that "trust me, we don't need training" level. that's what i want to get trough to.

>>17965889
>i'm sure he has it in him and is just too polite to let it out
He probably has it in him, but obviously teasing is not the way to get him worked up when it turns him off. What works best so far to get him worked up during foreplay? What are his psychological turn ons? Work with THAT, not what you find hottest yourself.

>>17965812
>woman wants something
>does everything but telling you what she wants
And this is why cant we have nice things.

>>17965889
Try BDSM shit. Just cuffs and gags. Handcuff your arms and legs to the bed with a gag in your mouth, and a note saying: Your Fuck Toy: Use my how you like.

If there are no wrong answers then he will go full animal. He is probably too conscious of what you like trying to be the perfect prince. We've all been there.

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>>17965889
>why should i be yelling? smack him? dude...
Because I'd love it

>>17965886
i don't know if you really can't be into "pass on my genes" on a subconscious level...

no, i don't EXPECT it. but we try a lot of stuff that one or the other initially "wasn't into" and in the end it mostly turns out that we're actually pretty into it.

i do expect him to tell me if there's something he wants to try, and since we have "we'll give everything a try atleast once (with limits to illegal stuff, other people and permanent damage), that happens frequently.

i told him i want him to rape me once. but he's usually rather submissive, which i also enjoy a lot. lately i just have the urge to try and switch roles sometimes

If we are making out and I'm groping and grinding in him, I like to slip my hand into my boyfriend's boxers and lightly and slowly scratch my fingers across his pubes just barely missing his base. It drives him crazy makes him say "god just grab my cock" every time. If I still refuse, he will pin me down and rip my clothes off, usually biting my neck and saying he needs to put his cock in me. Super hot.

But yeah just tell him that you're into this during a nonsexual moment and ask him if he wants to do some playfully forced stuff. It's all about communication.

>>17965895
well, he's basically always horny. he said himself that he gets a boner whenever he's around me. that results in us fucking a lot, without any actual foreplay since he's REALLY almost always horny when we are together. i don't even have to do anything. and that's also why he gets so frustrated if i try to tease and deny him.

i mean, we once went to an amusement park for half a day and we made a game out of couting his boners and he had a hardon 17 times...

i just love the banter and build-up before sex and with him, there is zero reason for this...

>>17965896
i have told him a couple of times...

>>17965899
meh, i've tried something along the lines. it doesn't trigger him

>>17965900
elaborate

>>17965909
i do that. but instead of pinning me down, he just interprets that as "she's not in the mood". despite me having told him before... oh well

>>17965922
>i have told him a couple of times...

What exactly did you tell him? Have you tried texting him a couple hours before he's gonna be home and telling him that you wish he'd just rip your clothes off, bend you over the couch, and fuck you like an animal until he blows his load deep inside of you without even saying anything as soon as he gets home?

>>17965922
>elaborate
I like it when a usually cute unassuming girl gets vulgar and sexually aggressive, it makes me feel attractive and secure in my manhood and turns me the fuck on.

>>17965935
>Have you tried texting him a couple hours before he's gonna be home and telling him that you wish he'd just rip your clothes off, bend you over the couch, and fuck you like an animal until he blows his load deep inside of you without even saying anything as soon as he gets home?
This is another great way to do it OP, let him get himself in the mood and tease himself with the thoughts of it while hes at work. Tell him hours before exactly what you want in a very vulgar and explicit fashion.

>>17965935
what if my text hits him in a really inappropriate mood? how do i test the water for this?

>>17965936
what is your definition of "vulgar and sexually agressive" behaviour

>>17965950
>what if my text hits him in a really inappropriate mood?

When my gf texts me stuff like that and I'm not really in the mood it just makes me happy to know that she really wants me. It's not offputting in the slightest for me even if I'm not horny at all.

>>17965950
>what is your definition of "vulgar and sexually agressive" behaviour
Lots of cursing and explicit details, a little bit of open hand hitting, biting, clawing my back, etc.

>>17965905
Sounds like a great sex life. Why not just tell him to fuck you like he wants babies?

Btw i have absolutely no desire for babies but boy do I like filling up my girl with cum. Maybe focus on the cum aspect not the impregnation aspect

>>17965955
yeah, but that would completely ruin my mood too...
argh! i know i am making this a lot more complicated than it would need to be.

it's just that he can't text back most of the time during the week and so i have no clue if he's in the mood for texts like that and i habe no urge to text him something like that and then get a "hey, how was dour day" text back 7h later.

>>17965965
>it's just that he can't text back most of the time during the week and so i have no clue if he's in the mood for texts like that and i habe no urge to text him something like that and then get a "hey, how was dour day" text back 7h later.
You're acting like men have to be "in the mood" to have sex like women do, most of the time even if we're tired from work we'll fuck you

>>17965956
we've been doing a lot more dirty talking lately. this really gets us going. maybe we should build that up even more.

i can get into all of that, except the slapping. that just seems unnecessary since it's not sexually but pure agression

>>17965958
yah, we kind of do that. if he's about to cum, i say stuff like "fill me up with your cum", or "i want you to cum deep inside me" or whatever.

how can i enhance this and play the "baby making/filling me up" up even more?

>>17965965
Don't text him half a day in advance, text him an hour or two before he's gonna be coming home. You want his dick to be rock hard and throbbing the whole drive home so that his lust is almost insatiable once he gets there.

>>17965970
you missed the point a bit (might be my fault, english is not my first language...).
i know i could easily get him in the mood, even over text, but it's extremely frustrating to try to sext him or send nudes since he can't text back for hours in most cases. so it just ruins MY mood to do it

>>17965864
This is going to sound bad, but i've been in a long distance relationship with a girl who is really shy and, while she was really sexual on skype, she was really hesitant to even get naked in real life.

It frustrated the hell out of me to the point where i just, you know, pinned her down with the weight of my body and she couldn't escape. Then she started crying and i stopped, but really, it's as close as i've gotten to actually raping someone.

What i've read that some people do during rape play is that they do rape play with a stop word, but the guy is in some instances allowed to ignore the stop word which creates the unpredictability that i think you're craving.

>>17965979
>i know i could easily get him in the mood, even over text, but it's extremely frustrating to try to sext him or send nudes since he can't text back for hours in most cases. so it just ruins MY mood to do it
Then do it about an hour or a half before he gets home instead, he doesn't have to answer just get ready to get fucked

>>17965976
I know! Say you want to do DDLG roleplaying and you want him to be your big daddy while you're his cute little princess.

>>17965981
so, being very sexual ober text and then not act on it irl might get him to that point?

we have a "safe rule" that is green means "please do more of this", yellow means "this is almost too much, don't go any further but also don't stop" and red means "stop NOW".

i think it isn't a good idea to have a safe word and then let someone ignore it... you might be right that it increases the unpredictability but i feel like this would be a pretty unintelligent move

>>17966007
>so, being very sexual ober text and then not act on it irl might get him to that point?

I think it's about the way you avoid acting on it. Being avoidant in the shy virgin way rather than in the "i don't care about your feelings" or the "haha, you can't have this" way is probably better.

>you might be right that it increases the unpredictability but i feel like this would be a pretty unintelligent move

Dudette, you can't get raped and remain in control at the same time. Getting raped is all about lack of control, and ultimately being forced to do something you do not want.
Otherwise it's technically not rape, even though it could be it in the sense of the law, due to the nature of proof of consent and so on.

>>17965981
>they do rape play with a stop word, but the guy is in some instances allowed to ignore the stop
Wow, this sounds like a really efficient way to put your relationship on the line. If the guy went overboard and did something that crossed her boundaries, she can feel raped because she tried through all means telling him to stop as someone he loved her and he ignored her, and he can feel cheated because he followed their exact rules and now there's a whole issue anyway.

>>17966101
Well, if you want to play the game you have to deal with it. You can't be realistically raped without being raped.

>>17966029
i never said i want to get raped. i just want to feel like he really needs to fuck me RIGHT NOW

>>17966158
Then try watching porn together, and then strip for him or something. I mean, if it's just that, it shouldn't be so hard.

>>17966128
It's called rape PLAY for a reason...

>>17965812
>how do i get a guy to rape me

nice try FBI

>>17966177
It's just what i've read on bdsm forums, everyone should do what is comfortable for them.

>>17966169
yeah, that's what i thought too. turns out it actually IS that hard.
whenever i try to steer our texts into more sexual territory, he blocks completely.
i just texted him and asked about his day. he said it was really cold so i texted back that i would knew a few things i'd like to do with him that would get him warm again in no time. his response was "if i can look into your eyes, i always feel warm"... wtf am i supposed to do with that?

>>17966198
"I want you to look into my eyes while you hold me tight with your cock deep inside my pussy"

>>17966205
And don't forget the smiley face with the heart eyes at the end

>>17966198
>>17966205
I'd just go with
>aww that's so sweet, now I feel like a pervert for what I was thinking of

He's being romantic here, not cool to brush that off.

>>17966217
yeah, but he does that EVERYTIME i try to be even slightly sexual over text. i just feel rejected if he does this. i'm more than enough romantic all the other times. why can't he go along with it atleast a tiny bit for ONCE?

>>17966205
he would just brush that off too.
besides, he has already gone over to talk about other stuff and my sexual remark is long forgotten and rotting in the basement

>>17966231
I'm just personally not into sexting. He might be the same.

Try anal?

>>17966231
Then why don't you ask him, in person, why he won't ever sext you? That it makes you feel rejected and you don't understand?

Nobody here knows why. Maybe he's paranoid about NSA, maybe it's again that he finds it too much "cockteasing" with too little action, maybe he's uncomfortable with it (yes that really happens, that people who have no issue being sexual in real life are awkward with sexting)... Only he can tell you.

>>17966237
lame

i have

>>17966242
because i know the answer. he's just too polite

>>17966248
I get that it's frustrating but at the end of the day you have to respect what he doesn't like. If you are right and it's truly a matter of being "polite" to you, then sit him down and tell him that actually he's not being ideal to you by doing this because he makes you feel rejected even if you intellectually know it's just this thing he doesn't like. But if it's just his excuse for not being comfortable with it, not liking it, feeling weird about himself doing that whatever... shit sucks but you have to deal with it. There is no magical way to make him change his personal preferences.

>>17965812
I'm sorry if it sounds a bit rude, but maybe he just doesn't like you all that much or the sex you have just isn't good enough for him to want more.


In my experience, if you and your partner aren't all that horny for each other is just because you're settling sexually. Which is okay, but you don't get that instinctual "I need to fuck her or I'll die".

>>17966280
oh well. guess i will just have to deal with it then

>>17966284
i hope you aren't right

>>17966313
>i hope you aren't right
Are you fat?

Then that anon's right.

>>17966313
Don't be silly, if he gets a rock hard dick around you all the time that anon's not right.

Having said that I was the poster who said you have to respect his boundaries/preferences, and I do think that him not bothering with foreplay is something you absolutely should confront him about unless you personally dislike that as well. If you're both on board, great. But otherwise, that's not okay.

>>17966335
I am that anon.

I have (admittedly) a very small experience because I dated just two guys, but I can really feel the difference between one and the other.
I had a satisfying sexual life with my first boyfriend, he found me attractive, got hard for me and all. He wanted to fuck me, but I never felt like it was a necessity.

My current boyfriend, on the other hand, really needs to fuck me. And I really can tell he does. The way he looks at me, the way he touches me, the way he talks to me just show how much he desires me. And the way he fucks me is mind-blowing - both because he wants to all the time, and because he is so passionate and literally melting and burning for me. It is another fucking thing. Even the way he acts is completely different.
Best part is that he basically warned me he had a low drive and was basically asexual when we started dating.

I look the same, I had a satisfying sexual life with both but there is a pretty fucking huge difference, and I can understand what OP talks about when she says "if you won't let me fuck you soon i will just have to fuck you anyways"-mode.