Is it understandable to be angry at my girlfriend for signing

>>17964194
Edit: She's volunteering every Wednesday. Not just one Wednesday.

Not letting you know was inconsiderate, but as long as Wednesday is not THE ONLY TIME you can see each other and there is a new day you can make the day you two hang out it's not that big of a deal

This is kid shit to get buttmad about.

Sure, she could have let you know she was doing it. But it's not like you can tell her what to do.

You could see this as an opportunity to say "hey cool, we could work on another day. And by the way, I didn't know you were into volunteering, we should do it together one day" and both come out happy or you could be a buttmad kid.

>>17964205
Well, we both have busy schedules and those wednesdays were always "our days".

I just feel hurt about the situation and feel as if I'm not as important to her as I once was. I'm afraid of telling her this out of fear of coming across as a sensitive cunt.

Am I overthinking things? I'm afraid I'm slowly becoming less important.

>>17964217

So she's basically taken away the only day you two have together to volunteer? There are no other times you are together?

>>17964215
I realize that it's a ridiculous thing to get upset about, but it doesn't change the fact that I am.

Maybe I'm just too clingy and need to lay off.

>>17964221
Very little. Maybe every 3 weeks or so I'd be able to squeeze in a date.

>>17964230

Then you two really aren't going to be doing anything together. So, I'd say you're justified to be angry that she didn't even ask you for your input if spending literally no time together was okay.

Volunteering is cool, but if all of your time is spent apart, what's the point of dating at all?

>>17964237
How do I tell her this?

I feel very hurt that she would be willing to do this in order to spend time with friends.

>>17964257

I don't know. Are you wanting to make the relationship work, or is this enough of a nail in the coffin to put it to bed?

>>17964223
Yeah, lay off some