I get turned on when a girl sits next to me. Is that bad?

No it's not bad. You can change it by fapping more often to more hardcore porn to desensitise yourself but again, it's not bad.

Have more female friends maybe? Talk to them.

I get nervous when an unknown attractive girl is near me, but when we start talking I realize she is just another dumb person and not a goddess

Plz dont be an idiot and try to desensitise yourself lol.

>>17963693
I don't have any advice, but my cum belongs on that girl's face

>>17963684
Whip your dick out at her. You'll be sent to a place with no women.

>>17963705
Why is desensitisation bad?

>>17963705
I don't believe women are goddesses (ok maybe I do) but the problem is that I am biologically inclined as a hetersexual man to be turned on. what is the exact science behind this restraint? What is the difference between a person who doesn't get turned on, and who does get turned on?

The only thing I know is that chronic masturbation makes you more likely to get turned on, because I was more used to getting aroused as soon as I saw something remotely stimulating.

>>17963734
This is the opposite for me. When I was fapping daily to hardcore porn I was not interested because I was already satisfied. After 2 weeks noporn fapping like 3 times a fortnight I haven't seen a pair of yoga pants I haven't wanted to pounce on. Again, this is a good thing. Why do you not want to be turned on by girls?

>>17963744
because of religious beliefs. It sounds crazy, I know, and I'm trying to figure it out. Hopefully the answer presents itself after much of my seeking.

>>17963744
even if I weren't religious I would still be concerned because it's almost like if a girl is in the next room my instincts are like "hey there's a girl in the next room, time to get it on here have an erection". I know I'm healthy but I feel like I'm the only one

>>17963684
Eh, I get like that if I've been out of a relationship and haven't had regular sex in a long time (like a 1yr dry spell or something). My dick calms back down after a few weeks of regular sex.