Here I am, asking once again because I didn’t had the time

>>17963511

Fuck a prostitute

Seriously, fuck a prostitute a few times and a lot of the edge about not having a girl will go away

You're obviously not going to be happy as you already are.

Let me ask you this: When you say you've focused on improving yourself, what exactly did you do?

Confidence ain't shit if you aren't good at faking it, or actually possess it. It's usually gained through self satisfaction, which makes faking it easier, and consequently becoming -actually- confident is even easier.

Looks should be more than just combing your hair or wearing some nice clothes. Physically, you'd do well to match up. I know you said you're short, but if you hit the gym regularly for a couple of months I guarantee you'd look considerably better - and you'd also FEEL better, and that would translate right back into confidence.

The hardest part about learning to socialize is the first part. It's a skill that you can develop, or let die. I broke out of my shell by just striking up small talk with people around me, trying to get them laughing, or sharing a story. Baby steps, regularly, will translate into bigger steps - but you need to push yourself to take these steps.

Anyways - what exactly have you done trying to improve yourself?

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>>17963548
I can't, i live in mexico, aside from being dangerous for myself i wouldn't be able to pay for one, at least one that won't give me aids or something

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>>17963580
what exactly did you do?
Go to the gym, 3-5 days a week. 3 years by now. Learn german, improve my looks, posture, manners, learn or improve more jokes. Try the best i can in university. Extend my vocabulary by reading a little more. Try to understand social cues that i usually don't. Be kinder and glenter as much as i can.
>I broke out of my shell by just striking up small talk with people around me
I did the same thing for 3 years now. I just can't get any friends or gf.
I've tried to include myself in social circles but i never fit in any of those. I tried over and over again, but i'm just here, usually at /pol/ laughing at the jokes or something, sometimes in /fit/ but i really have no friends after trying to get into social circles, dance, sports, new language, music, it has never worked for me

>>17963621
I swear I can always tell when someone is mexican. They always have this certain defeatist attitude. Of course the spanish-like tells in their text help.

Anyway, I imagine you reek of low self esteem and that's why girls don't date you. I'm a girl so I have no experience in your situation, so I can't give much advice, sorry. I can only tell you that the interactions I've had with you on here put me off. You were condescending and whiny. Maybe the girls you meet can feel that.

>>17963673
>say the true about my life
>omg you're whiny and condescending
women are not welcome in this thread.

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>>17963673
Also i don't meet anyone anymore, i literally try to speak as little as possible

Have you tried learning German, it's the language of love.

>>17963656
>Go to the gym, 3-5 days a week. 3 years by now.
Pics or it didn't happen. Going to the gym to use the drinking fountain doesn't count

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>>17963729

>>17963728
I did, i'm learning it mein freund

>>17963714
I called you condescending because of the way you dismiss what I say. I come here to complain about my life too. Anyway your answer just proved my point. Try to be a kinder person. You can disagree with someone without mocking them.

>>17963739
So am i supossed to not care about my health of life? i've considered the probablity of getting a whore but it's risky, way too much.

>>17963656
Did you put on proper muscle? Cardio? In 3 years you should be quite muscular...to put it lightly. Diet and sleep can go a long way.

You're probably trying too hard now, focused too much on making friends and getting a girlfriend, and come off as desperate/needy when you'd rather not. I feel stupid even writing this, but you need to try less hard for more success.

I don't really fit in that well for social circles too, I feel you, but you still have to try and put yourself out there - as best you can. Me, personally, I tread a line now where I've interests super nerdy and masculine, but don't feel like I fit in properly with either group - so I tread them both, going back and forth.

A lot of it, in my opinion, has to do with being smart, eccentric, or a combination of both. Not a lot of people know how to handle those - save for those who suffer similarly. This is probably hurting you too. I've got a girlfriend right now who I met on /soc/ of all places. She's weird, spergy as hell, but we get along great because (like the overly used cliche) we can be ourselves and neither person cares.

Worst case, if you're really trying to be 'happy', pursue the shit that really speaks to you - and disregard the rest. Dating wise - have you tried Tinder, OKC, POF, etc? It's partly a numbers game...worst case.

>>17963750
I have no idea how that relates to what I said

>>17963735
You look good to me, buddy.

You ever tried just being 'douchey', and very forward with girls? No dancing around - just "Hey - let's grab some coffee." type shit?

How well versed are you with current trends regarding that, and where to find them?

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>>17963752
>You're probably trying too hard now
i don't even try anymore. Read my first post.
I tried tinder, only got bots, men who i swipped right by accident, and camwhores. Not a single match in 2 years.
OKC neither got a match or message ever lol
>>17963757
>women
>>17963765
I've tried that too much too, "no i'm busy" "homework" or just ignore me completely.
>How well versed are you with current trends regarding that, and where to find them?
i did not understand thisquestion

Notice that i already gave up on women, read again my first post.
I want a way to be happy realizing i'm an autist (diagnosed) and a omega that won't have friends or love, aside from his parents. I want advice in that, not in women, i already know i'm shit for them.

>>17963781
Oh look, you're being condescending again. At this point I have no advice for you, sorry. I don't think you'll get anywhere with that attitude. You clearly know better than me though.

>>17963803
so i should fuck a whore or probably get mugged and stabbed to death over 50 bucks so i'm not condescending to a random girl on 4chan
oh

>>17963735
Yo se como sente pero usted eres musculoso. Debea fuerte en la corazón. esa es que mejor importante.

mi amigo, tiene fuerte. usted eres muy guapo

>>17963781
Have you ever seen the matrix? RP.

>>17963808
Err... again, what does that have to with what I said? I'm just saying you should try to be a kinder person. No idea why you keep bringing up whores.

Dude you're holding yourself back. I used to believe in the manlets can't get laid meme, but my short co-worker plays the drums in a church band and he crushes puss.

>>17963829
That was your first post, which i responded to then you called me condescending.
>>17963817
I try, i try, but it's a life-time issue, it feels bad to remember that most of my life has been in front of a computer.
>>17963819
No
>>17963833
I've called short or ugly by literally every girl i've met.
I tried learning piano but my fingers over extend in a weird way and it hurts too much to play, i wasn't accepted in amateur courses at my uni because of this.

>>17963841
Oh I see what you mean. I didn't post that though, my first post was 17963673. Also since you're talking about short people, I'm 174 cm tall and my ex 160 cm. So, yeah, height doesn't matter as much as you think. I'll agree that some people are shallow though.

>>17963860
i'm 182cm and my """ex""" was 165 but she kept calling me short.
She thought i was rich the first 4 weeks we met but then realized i wasn't and ghosted me

>>17963868
In 4 weeks, you probably could have banged her.

Get an escort or a hooker... Get that out of your system so you can think straight.

>>17963877
lol no i couldn't, i told her i never kissed anyone and she mocked me for a week about that. Only held her hand once, which made her feel disgusted.

>>17963868
You're above average height for your country, why is everyone calling you short? Do you hang out with super tall people or something?

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>>17963887
No guy has called me short seriously.
Girls always call me short.
I don't, people are taller than me, pic related, i'm only taller than the turbo femlet that is my teacher

>>17963907
Are those germans? Because, you know, germans are huge. This is why I asked if you hang out with super tall people

sometimes the advice you want doesn't exist. there is no way to stop oyu from being human, and humans want to get with other humans, usually of the opposite sex. you can't stop being straight anymore than a homo can stop being gay. you are born to creave interaction.

you can rise above it, but its still there. Like hunger, you can ignore it, but you will still be hungry.

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>>17963915
The femlet and the blonde dude are german.

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>>17963920
I insult myself, i suffocate myself whenever i think i deserve anything from anyone but my parents, i beat my head everytime i find myself dreaming about a relationship or something like that.
It has worked a bit though.
I still smile and laugh when i'm in my pc browing /wsg/ but i just give a death stare to everybody

tfw noone gave actual advice for what i asked

>>17964114
Yes they did. They just didn't tell you what you wanted to hear.

/adv/ is for normalfags who have never experienced any real social adversity anon, there is no advice they could possibly give you

>>17963735
Let me see your clothes.

>>17964657
can't take pics, got mugged and i have not cellphone at the moment.
Jeans, usually dark blue, polo shirts, red and blue. and average day sport shoes.
>>17964174
>>17964151
It really seems like it, nobody has given advice in what i asked

>>17963924
Ah fuck, thanks for the keks OP.
I truly wish you the best of all.
But maybe the type of women you go for tend to just be "bitches"? Have you ever given that a thought?

>>17966542
Yes, no they're not, i usually hit on the less bitchy women possible