My girlfriend is studying abroad this semester and there is now a 13 hour time difference between us. Pretty much the only time we get to talk is when one of us is going to bed and the other is just waking up. She's only been gone for a couple weeks and it's starting to feel real, like this will take some work to keep going.
How do I keep a good relationship when the time difference is so big?
>>17963388
It's over.
>>17963394
Looks like you just answered your own question. Whatever happened time to move on.
Make sacrifices on your sleep but chances are she's already being unfaithful to you. Doesn't matter how well you think you know her.
>>17963394
So you think there isn't a way to make things work?
>>17963397
That was some other anon.
>>17963398
I trust her, but from what I've read online women seem to get a thrill out of cheating when they're far away. I don't want to end things because I was paranoid she would cheat.
>>17963388
Anon, my parents have lived long distance for as long as I can remember. These days is much easier than the 80s when every long distance call cost money. We are now in eastern US and my dad is in Maylasia. They talk every morning and every nite via FaceTime. You just have to have a lot of trust in each other and a commitment to each other. Best of luck.
>>17963388
It really comes down to making time when you can. If you can plan ahead or schedule when you two will Skype or whatever, you're a lot more likely to keep in touch than if you just expect contact to arise normally. My girlfriend also is 13 hours off me when she goes home for break, and this is what worked out for us.
>>17964123
She's cheating behind your back.