Nobody likes me at uni. Im trying to be social but people don't want to talk to me. I'm insecure about some things and it probably shows, but I can't just stop that.
what makes you insecure?
if you can't relax around somebody and show them that you share the same interests its hard to make a connection
>>17962101
Knock knees mostly, other things I could deal with I guess
>if you can't relax around somebody and show them that you share the same interests its hard to make a connection
Yeah, I realise that. For the moment I don't have any idea how to get rid of my insecurity though
Bump. What can I do to stop being a pariah everywhere I am?
I'm starting to lose hope. I wake up everyday and try my best but I feel powerless. People just don't want to interact with me, my insecurities are always there, my OCD has got better and I generally have my shit together as opposed to just a while ago, but it's too late because everyone has already judged me to oblivion.
>>17962060
>t I feel powerless
do you shower every day ? wear clean clothes ? not pick your nose or fart in public ? seems obvious but i knew several weirdos like this when i was in college
try some of the clubs at your college, avoid the fraternities
>>17962634
God no, I don't do such things. I'm clean, dress decently and people on /soc/ often called me good looking.
I believe it's the 'vibes' I give off or the 'weird', emotionless and tense and uncomfortable look I probably have on my face. Also the fact that the people have already labeled me as a 'weirdo'.
>>17962060
Fuck dude I'm just your opposite. I hate everyone and I want to be alone, but those fuckers want to socialise with me every time.