So time for some life advice.
I am currently living in the cold and dark north of Denmark and working fulltime aswell as a fulltime study. The company i work for gave me the opportunity to open a office in my city, but since then it has gone a little bit slow, etc. no opportunity to hire new co-workers or so, which is not only the companys fault, but also my own.
I have been wanting to travel for a long time and last week it hit me that i could do some work and travel which i also have done before. I am in the sales business, and working as a b2b phone salesman now.
I found a company in Malaga which want to hire me as a b2b phones salesman also, but with probably a worse salary, but i guess living is also cheaper in spain. I love spain, i love sun, party, beaches and summer, which my conclusion is i will could find in Malaga.
So what is holding me back? I have a girlfriend 7-8/10, which probably want to marry me and have kids in 2 years or something which is scarrying me a little bit, when i think of that there is so much more i want to do before i "settle" and our relationship has also gone a little bit down the last 6 months (been with her for 1.5 year now). But i like the though of having "somebody", you now. My studies is not really holding me back as i dont think i will finish them either way.
>A girl that I date for only 1.5 year is talking about marriage and kids, the past 6 months has been kinda bland.
Don't do this, don't get tricked by hormones.
>>17961833
Shes a muslim, so we have been living kinda under the radar for the past 1,5 years. It seems like the only solution is marriage if we want to stay together...
>>17961833
>Don't do this, don't get tricked by hormones.
Implying that settling down with qt is a bad thing.
>>17961849
>muslim.
Really dude?!
>>17961852
Sure, marry a qt girl that you barely know and wait until she show her true colors and fuck you up.
>>17961856
>fuck you up
Implying she cant fuck him up in both rhetorical ways anytime she wants now.
Sometimes you have to trust people around you.
>>17961856
Yea, why not? I had hoped i could convince her to do things the danish way, but i think it wont be posssible.
>>17961863
Yea exactly, the more you have together, the more you need to trust each oher i guess.
>>17961863
Yeah, but 1.5 years is way too early to think about marriage, they'are still in the honeymoon fase and things are already shaky.