Does love come when you are trying? how did your first relationship,

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Does love come when you are trying? how did your first relationship, or most of them started
>20 years old guy
>Most of friends like me
>always invited first to a party
Every girl thinks i have had atleast 3-4 lovers because of my charisma and personality, i am pretty extrovert and one of the cool guys at the faculty (everyone said this to me, these things, i am not just praising myself).
>Actually i am a kissless virgin
I am trying hard to flirt and its going awesome, but all of the sudden something happens and i lose the momentum, theres always something which interrupts my game,
>Go on a date, everything goes awesome, the date sees her ex, keep in mind, the night we went out we barely saw 10 persons on the streets.
>Start dating other girl, after a week she has to go back to her home country for some compications.
Is god just making the fun out of my life, like whenever i try something happens and i end up at the start.
>Should i go with the flow or keep trying?